and the Hood- rat chic he impregnated back.(Yes she knew he was married.) Any and all ideas will be greatly appreciated.Thanks in advance.
2007-02-17 17:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by Chinchila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce him..
Move on..
Forget about him..
2007-02-17 17:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey U:
Revenge is not good it has many side effects and when you are finished the same empty angry feeling is still there!
I have been there so I know,revenge may seem good when you do it but the problem is still there!
The best revenge is to divorce him,you will be guarding your heart and save guarding your life from the sin of revenge.
But if you still want revenge you can do something he will never forget on his entire life and neither her;careful not to get caught!
luv sanam
2007-02-18 01:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing for you to do would be to divorce him and move on. Get another boyfriend and start dating again, don't pick a rebound, but get someone that cares bout you and you care bout them. Show him that you don't care and that you've moved on. Show him what he missed out on by moving on and being happy. I was not married but we had been living together for 5yrs when my boyfriend cheating on me. I was hurt, he was my first boyfriend. I wanted revenge on him and her, but the answer was not to try and punish them but to find happiness for myself. It was his lost, not mines. Besides if she didn't know he was married and was with him and found out later and left him, then he would have just found another girl to be with. If a person is going to cheat, then they will cheat, no matter what you do to try and keep them from doing so. If it was not her then it would have been another girl. After a month of heartbreak, I found another guy, and we've been happy since. Its going on 2years for us. The good thing was that you reap what you sow, I seen the ex in the store the other day, we spoke, theres no since of being cold hearted. I was happy with my new man and he was alone and looking terrible. I know he felt bad that he missed out on a good girl. You will find a good man somewhere and you will be happy. Don't let him hurt you put it in God's hands, he will reap what he sow.
2007-02-18 02:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Honeybun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this situation is to ignore the both of them. They expect you to make a scene if you see them somewhere. They want attention and I wouldnt give it to them. When they see you could care less about them and what they are doing they will both feel dumb. You no longer have to worry about him now she will have the problem of him cheating on her. She will look stupid when its all said and done when she is riding around with a newborn looking for him and possibly catching him with someone else. You can then step back and laugh at the both of them because they both look like asses
2007-02-18 01:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be smarter than them. Remember that everything you do comes back to you. What they did will come back to get them for sure, and the best part of this rule is that you don't have to be involved in it. You could mangle her face forever, but then something bad would happen to you again. What goes around comes around, so just sit back and laugh at them when it does.
2007-02-18 02:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Vengence is mine, sayeth the Lord". Besides that, he is not worth it. Divorce him and take everything that you can get then find someone from a non-denominational church that is caring and supportive that will love and care for you. You are certainly worth it. But don't allow him to make you stoop to his level. Separate yourself as far from him as you possibly can. I am sorry that he hurt you so. Have a great Lord's Day.
Eds, Christian
2007-02-18 02:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Eds 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have him wrapped around his balls, so to speak. Divorce him and take him for everything he has, you have full proof of adultry. Leave him and his new........... whatever she is, see how long she will be with him once you take everything, DO NOT LET HIM GET AWAY WITH THIS PLEASE. You have the right you are his wife and he cheated on you and he knew the chances he was taking when he decided to have sex with someone else, take him to the cleaners. If you have children it will benefit them in the future, please believe me on this.
2007-02-18 02:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by sunshinedawn65 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isn't the answer. Divorce him, move on with your life. You deserve better than him.
2007-02-18 10:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge dose nothing but makes you feel good for a little while give them to god and he will work it out count your blessing that its not you pregnant and hes cheating he will have his day
2007-02-18 01:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by okdmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time & energy on revenge. It hardens your heart. Count your blessings you're not in HER shoes!
2007-02-18 01:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry your divorce lawyer...
2007-02-18 01:46:16 · answer #11 · answered by Jenny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋