Both my bf and I watch porn. I am into breasts and he's into the bottom. Anyway, I don't care when he watches porn. When we are together, I tend to check out girls more often than him.
Is this normal? I actually think it's normal and healthy for him to watch porn even if he loves me.
Most girls seem to hate the fact that their boyfriends watch porn.....
2007-02-17 17:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by Curiosityworkswonders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I truely beleive that females who have a problem with porn are jealous/insecure.
and that those who do not enjoy it themselves...are'nt very sexual/comfortable. (they're uptight)
I love it and I would'nt want a man that did'nt, or that was not supportive of my interest in it.
2007-02-17 17:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are right to feel bad about him doing that. That is how you feel. He should be more caring and thoughtful about you. Yet I don't feel that he is doing a bad thing. He is not ignoring you or anything. Just his hormones now is working him up and sex is in his mind at the moment. You should be more confident about yourself and stop worrying if you are not good for him or sexy enough for him. Just know that this is a phase he will have to go through and this is something you have to work on. There are times when you and him will have difficulties seeing things as one so what can you do? Can you compromise? Can he compromise? If you do, will you be calculative about it? Will you say I have been doing much for him now yet he doesn't do anything for me or stuff like that? Actually being together means to understand and compromise on each others fault. No one is perfect. We are not Lego's. We don't fit that way but we can adjust to fit. You are perfect as you are. So be confident about it. You should only check on his activities like and see if this phase ends like the next few weeks or months. If you really mind, then go do some activities with him together. Do it more often. The more you spend time and good memories with him, it will make you forget about his habit of watching porn excessively. It;s your responsibility also to make him happy and make things work. If you know he is having problem watching porn too much, then do something to make him watch less and less of it. (you can quietly go spoil his PC or TV. Not that I encourage it.) If you think you are not good enough, then you make changes on your own. Go gym, exercise, shape up. Wear nice sexy clothing. Don't ask him, just change. he will notice. Try to bear with it for now. If you think he is worth it like when you first meet him then why let such minor issue worked you out? Solve it. This will help you in the future when you get marry. Hope this helps. I hate seeing anyone breakup without really fighting for it first. Good luck!
2016-05-24 00:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is good for a healthy relationship
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2007-02-19 09:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking in reasonable terms. People really can't decide whats normal and whats not. "Normal" is just an opinon everybody was their own style. But Im not saying that killers and criminals are just doing their thing because at least one person may think thats. But yea it is ok because in my view there is no such thing a normal. Now don't get me turned around Im not some weirdo walking around I happen to live a "normal" life (as judged by society.)
2007-02-21 10:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me and my ex watched porn. Not together, but I would have. He just never liked watching it with me. Not sure why.. lol I guess that's why we broke up. He didn't tell me ****! lol But I had no problem with him watching porn or masturbating when I wasn't around. I did it as well, even while watching porn.
Now all I need is to find a guy that is willing to watch it with me and tell me what he likes. lol
2007-02-17 18:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't really have a problem with porn or with guys watching it. i think it is normal as long as it isn't child porn.But it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks. if it works for the two of you than i don't really see the problem
2007-02-17 17:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by menau 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's normal for a lot of women. women who are secure with themselves usually aren't fretting over their man watching other naked women.
it's also natural to check out other women because they of course spend more time on their appearance and therefore look better. you also want to keep tabs on whats hot and whats not.
2007-02-17 17:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do not prefer watching such stuff, by the time you and your partner will lose the passion the intention to have natural sex. it is not recommended.
2007-02-17 17:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by abmyd 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋