ok i am 16 and have this boyfriend.im white and he is black.i slept with these two guys one is black and the other is hispanic.What do i do if the baby is hispanic? Should i tell all of them or some of them?
2007-02-17 16:26:41 · 28 answers · asked by Little1forLyfe!! 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wait until the baby is born and get a paternity test.
2007-02-17 16:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It means you're slutty.
Step one is to stop sleeping with boys altogether. You're obviously not mature enough to be having sex in the first place. Step two, take a pregnancy test before you worry about who your babydaddy is.
If you are pregnant, the best thing you could do at this point is tell all three of them they are potential fathers and have a DNA test done. It's possible to have a DNA test done while you are still pregnant but I wouldn't recommend it unless you have to have an amnio done anyway because that's a procedure that does have some risks for the baby especially since you're so young.
If you're pregnant, I would highly recommend going to a teen pregnancy center, they can help you make sure you take good care of your baby both before and after it is born and give you some counseling so you can start making better decisions in life.
2007-02-17 19:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definately all of them what if something happens to the child in a few years down the road lord forbid and the father is the only with the right blood type or bone marrow or something to that effect and the guy you told was the father was not and could not do anything to help out the child he thought was his you owe it to your babies health to do that I know it will be tough to tell them but if you are strong enough to be ready to be a mother I believe you can do this GOOD LUCK!! Oh also you will have people yelling at you and putting you down but the truth of the matter is you are already pregnant just do what is right for you and your child.Yes you are young and it will be hard and I hope you have support to help you keep your head up and you will get through this.If you need anyone to talk with please contact me.londiabowers@yahoo.com.
2007-02-17 16:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by HOT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, it means that you are not very mature or responsible and not very smart either. With the behavior that you are describing, you may not have to worry about anything for very long. At 16 years old, you are taking an awful lot of risks that could result in killing you, your partners, your family members and your baby With the diseases that are out there today, and the education that is provided to young people, I don't understand why there are so many teenagers still having unprotected sex, and with multiple partners to boot. You could already have contracted HIV, hepatis C or any of a number of other STD's and could be passing this on to your unborn child, and your other sexual partners. Also the fact that you have admitted to sleeping with at least 3 different guys, tells me that you are obviously not in love with any of them, or you would not be with 3 of them. Does not sound like a person who is mature enough to be considering raising a child regardless of who the father is. You probably should tell all of them so they can all get tested for diseases and treated, if there is a treatment available for what you may have helped to spread around.
2007-02-17 16:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means you have unprotected sex with someone other than your boyfriend.
You have a few options...
1. have it, find out who's it is and keep it and raise it with or without the guy who is the father. You may have to drop out of school to raise it & then get a job to provide for it if you dont have a good family that will help you for the next couple of years while you finish school and grow up.
2. abortion
3. adoption
If none of these sound good...its kinda too bad right now, if you are indeed pregnant. If you are not, go to the clinic, get some birth control and USE it if you cant control your urges.
2007-02-18 09:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first of all we need to address the real problem here. You need to begin to learn to keep your legs together. Do you understand what I am saying here? You are 16 and already have been sleeping with multiple partners, what the hell are you thinking anyway. Or maybe that's the problem...you aren't thinking.
I strongly suggest you begin to respect yourself, your body and stop sleeping around like a cheap trick. The next thing you should do is get a pregnancy test and a test for all the STD's that are going around. Then, discuss with someone birth control and next discuss morality.
Change your life now, young lady, you are headed down a very bad path. You still have time, don't waste it.
2007-02-17 16:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for your pregnancy. Having a baby is a beautiful and a huge thing. Carrying another life in your body...how great is that?
Who cares about how you got pregnant? It could be a stupid reason or a great reason...it's all the same since it did end up making you have a child. Sure some people are happy and not...but you can always make it better as long as you work hard for it.
But generally, it is quite hard for young women like you to not only take care of yourself, take care of your child. Before you talk to any of your boyfriend, I suggest you to read the link below and think about talking to your parents. Then you can decide what to do...
It may be hard for you to accept this, but this is not only your life anymore. Your most of life time will be devoted to your child...Think well, plan ahead and be ready as much as you can. Think "what is the best for your child" more than anything.
I hope you and your child will be happy in the end. I hope things will get better for you and please take care of yourself. Good luck!
2007-02-17 17:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can only hope u are not pregnant, how about a little respect for yourself, what do u mean should i tell all of them or some, are u stupid or are you stupid, if you plan on having a baby make sure you mature very quickly, cause your baby needs a woman as a mother not a dumb little girl, so what u going to do if you have a baby ..... apply for food stamps!!!!! or flip burgers to support your child, don't think any of the guys you gave it up so easy to will help you, i doubt you finished high school
its unbelievable that in this day & age any female as young as you are has to get pregnant, well lets hope you aren't & the only reason i hope you are not is for this little poor baby who is born to such irresponsible individual as you are
2007-02-17 16:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by angela w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell all of the guys, it's the moral and proper thing to do for your baby. If you are concerned get a DNA test to find out who is the father of your baby. And why are you having unprotected sex with multiple partners at 16? Not my life though so I'm not going to judge. Hope you get it all worked out.
2007-02-17 16:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If u quite love her, personal up d reponsibility for her being pregnant & marry / do engagement her besides the undeniable fact that both seen one in each and every of u r very youthful. this kind u will b doing a huge help to d woman. yet later on u shudnt quarrel on dis mission & it shud b a secret wager u & her.
2016-12-04 07:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey there is no such thing as the wrong one. You picked who you slept with, the egg picked which one fertilized. That is just the way it goes. If you don't want to get knocked up you shouldn't be $crewing around. May as well tell them both, could be eithers.
2007-02-18 04:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋