Whenever I call home she doesn't answer, same with her cell phone. She never does what she say, she always forget.
2007-02-17 16:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Law 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, if she cant remember what she did where she went, is gone everyday , doesnt pick up the phone and has an excuse for everytime she doesnt, more than likely YES. and its your fault for not keeping better tabs on her.
2007-02-17 16:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Law,
It depends on how you look at it. You wife is a work alolohic. Mine did the same thing to me for the last part of our 16 years of marriage. If she was not working late she was spending way to many hours at a Girl Scout funtion. Later one I discovered it was her way of avoiding me. It was very possible that she was cheating on me but I don't think it happened. The way she treated me made me feel the same way you did. Being avoided and not disired.
Talk with her and if you don't see a positive change in the right direction seek marital councling. Sometimes they are the best source for keeping a marriage together. Remember one thing, everything happens for a reason. If she is not the wright person for you, as such in my case (I was not able to see it at the time; because I loved her so much but unfortunatly she did not feel the same way) you will discover that your life is going to be better and more whole being around someone that does love you and wants to be with you. By all means don't do the dumb thing that most guys do, never go out an have an affair; it only makes things worse for you, and for her if she was ever to find out. By all means try to work things out. If you have kids not matter what if she starts acting cold to you as such in my case. Be the stronger of the two and do not play her head game. I am hoping that things get better between the two of you and wish you both the best.
2007-02-18 00:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always check up on your spouse unexpectedly, for instance, come home early when you no she should be home. You probably suspect this from other things that are going on in your marriage. TALK TO EACH OTHER! You need to talk about these times and way you think she is cheating. If there is nothing to worry about, you would'nt have to ask this question. Be honest and get to the point, if she denies it, make sure she knows this is hurting you and you need some reassurance about what her wedding vows actually mean. It sounds like you are more dedicated than she is, you need to make her wonder where you are and what you are doing, see how she likes it. That should spark some interest in your relationship. Make her chase you around for a change.
2007-02-18 00:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by ratfart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe... If she seems like she acts different around you that would be another sign too. I don't know why she wouldn't pick up her cell phone ever either, no matter how busy I am even at work I would still pick up and just say its a bad time. Plus it sounds like your instincts are telling you something too.
2007-02-18 00:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to play hooky on a few days work. Change your patterns and get off early. Go late a couple of times also. Don't be predictable about going or coming home for work.
2007-02-18 01:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you getting any? How is she sexually with you? If she is cheating there will be other signs and behavior changes that clue you in? How is she dressing? Has she started losing weight or exercising? Has she shown any anger towards you for no apparent reason? Maybe there is something else going on that is completely harmless?
2007-02-18 00:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, come on ...seriously. It is all about what you gut tells you and you know already the answer for this one you just want me to reinforce your thoughts. On the scale from 1-10 I would give a probability of 7, be nice and have a long...long conversation about it.
2007-02-18 00:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by cutelovableme4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes. but before you bring it up with her I would make sure u had proff like maybe follow her r somthing r u could go throught her cell phone history and see who she is calling and stuff.
Good luck
2007-02-18 00:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, pretend to go to work and follow her. Or hire a private detective if you have the funds.
2007-02-18 00:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me that's is not a good enough reason to think that wife is cheating.They only thing that tells me is that u are cheatin or u did and he guilt is on u so u think she is cheatin.
2007-02-18 00:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet to find out for sure is to not go to work oneday and follow her to see why she is "forgetting" things.
2007-02-18 00:23:07 · answer #11 · answered by Mom of Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋