2007-02-17 15:51:23 · 20 answers · asked by ashish j 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I have a very strong opinion about this one, because it is an extremely important choice and it can be marvelously good or horribly bad and it affects your entire life, speaking from a 1985 divorce. Know yourself and be honest with yourself. Never fake it to impress someone, as they say, you can catch it, and then what will you do with it when you have to be your real self. I say take the online $5 Myers Briggs test and you will get tons and tons of excellent info.
2007-02-17 15:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In whatever way you search for a companion, both of you will have to give and take to make it a happy communion. Life is complex and each individual has to understand the likes and dislikes of the other and act accordingly.
2007-02-17 16:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO SEARCH a right companion 4 life one needs to make frndship with her ask her about her likes dislikes,take her 4 a an outing and make him/her believe that he is yours~!!!!1
2007-02-17 16:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Zoeb T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive my straying from the topic just a bit, but...
For a long time now I've felt that no matter how I knew it was most likely wrong (for me, anyway) that my main goal was to find one person and live, however cliche`, happily ever after.
Now, I don't think about the future so much. For one, relationships. The chances of me (if I end up getting the guy in this current situation I'm in) and him staying together forever at our age is very quite unlikely for us. But I really care for him, and the thought of us one day NOT being together is really quite...displeasing.
So back to your question, I don't think there is a thing like a soul mate, I think you just click with certain people, that there is no real ONE, just look for happiness in whatever form you find it.
Best of luck with your goals, and I apologize for the brief ramble.
2007-02-17 19:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Leeloo Dallas Multipass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing like a search as you say.
Its a human instinct to feel the likeness and it has capability to
analyse whether one could prove to be a lovely partner or not.
we get to meet so many people in our life . Few are those which
keep dwelling in our heart and ruling our mind though time faints away. This is where you need to analyse if you are comfortable with the one, and rest you know what to do.
CAUTION!!!!!!
never ignore your inner voice in this whole process else you would not get desired results....
all the best......!!!!
2007-02-20 23:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by prakhar j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing needed to do to find a right companion for life is to check the behaviour of the person whom you like.you should see that if he/she talk properly to the people lower than him
2007-02-17 17:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by harshit_2019 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur companion is already born and somewhere in this world. when the right time comes, u will surely meet and get married. till then, its waste of time to search.
be patient, concentrate on other things and enjoy ur present status.
2007-02-17 17:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not clear ...do you want to know where all to search for the right companion ? or meeting diff girls how to know which one is the right one for you?
2007-02-17 18:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Praxis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who makes you laugh!!! Thats important. If you can laugh you will more than likely be happy!
Make sure its someone that you feel comfortable and safe with. This is going to be a person that you can completely be yourself around, because if you can't that you are going to end up having to sensor yourself for the rest of your life, or time spent with them, thus resulting in unhappiness.
Make sure that you have things in common or else there won't be a common ground for the two of you. It is just important to have your differences. In all honestly; when it comes to the similar interests and balanced number of differences it is important to find a happy medium that you are comfortable with. Like I said, its important to have a common ground, sort of like a meeting place for the two minds, yet you don't want to be with someone who is practically a duplicate of yourself. It will annoy the heck outta you.
Personally I like for a partner to have admirable traits, qualities, or abilites, and vice versa. I feel like its an offering. For example; I used to not be able to share my poetry with anyone other than myself and possible my cat if she happened to catch me rewording stuff out loud. My boyfriend publishes his poetry pieces... slowly I over came my fear of criticism. I now write and post for a web site.
Good luck! I hope you found this helpful!
2007-02-17 15:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Miss. Persephone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of the above answers are good. But I emphasize take time and be patient. Prayer is a must.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-17 16:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋