Axed me 32 years ago i know where he drinks and lives what should i do I WANT TO TAKE REVENGE Help please the Anger is building UP i want to do to him what he did to me
2007-02-17 15:44:56 · 30 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
TAKE YOUR REVENGE GOOD.only you have done this you'll be able to live a further life otherwise it'll ail you for the rest of your life.
2007-02-18 00:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jule. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the right road to travel, 32 years is a very long time in passing to try to get revenge anyway. You should forgive the person that axed you so many many years ago. I'm not for sure on what you meant by axed, but what ever it means could you not tell some one about it when it happened at the time? I'm thinking axed means getting fired (could be wrong on my thinking), never the less you need to be the better person and do what is right and that is forgive the person and you will feel better about yourself. Anger is a strong word, if you can't deal with anger you may want to think about anger classes. Doing the right thing makes you the better person. Being stupid only gets you into trouble. I think you are smarter than that.
Don't risk your reputation on trying to get revenge on an old issue.
2007-02-18 00:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by brendanorris2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Axed? As in what? Were you wounded with an axe 32 year ago? If not what do you mean? Were you fired? Either way taking personal revenge is not a good idea. If you were fired, so what, a lot of people have been fired, to nurse a grudge for 32 years over being fired is abnormal. If you are talking about a physical attack with an axe, it would be normal to remember and resent such a thing, but people get locked up for that sort of thing. Either way you should seek psychological help. Your doctor would be able to arrange this for you.
2007-02-18 00:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by funnelweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking revenge is never what you would think it is. All it does is cause you guilt and misery . You are a better person. Can you not just tell the police . If this is not possible you need to talk to someone that can help you to release all the pain you are holding inside of you. You can go to a United Way Agency to talk or go to a Minister. Go to anyone that you just talk and talk to and get rid of your hurt. Do not do anything that will put you in jail.Salvation Army always has helpers fast.
2007-02-18 00:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by wryley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What actually AXED you WITH AN AXE ?!?!?!?
Or just fired you from a job?
Either way, if it was 32 years ago, he's probably done his time. You should go and have a chat with him, I'm sure it will be quite an interesting conversation. In fact, you should get a film crew in there and interview him. Would make a great documentary. I wish I was in the same country as you & I'd do it.
2007-02-18 00:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are carrying that burden for 32 years?
Forget about the revenge. Go up to him and simply say "Do you remember me?(he might not). I wnt you to know what you did to me all those years ago, and how it screwed me up for most of my life."
Keep it simple. YOU stay calm, even if you are raging inside.
I vowed revnge on my ex husband for years who had abused me and our baby boy.
Now I don't care any more. It doesn't matter if I never see him again. I've got my son, who has grown into a fine honest and kind man.
Once I wanted to kill his father. Now I realise I have forgiven him, for being young and stupid and immature.
If you have carried this hurt for so long, you are still allowing this person to control you.
Get help for that, it's out there. You deserve to be free of these feelings.
Revenge is not the name of the game.
You are better than that. Don't lower yourself to that level.
2007-02-18 03:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know revenge is tempting but if you think what he did was wrong, then why do you want to do the same thing if you know it was wrong? You may feel good after you do this, but then you should think about how you felt the day he did that to you, and I know revenge sounds sweet, but after you get revenge you'll feel lousy, and you'll regret it. I know this sounds hard but try to not sink down to this person's level, and just put what he did behind you, and don't hold a grudge.
2007-02-18 00:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean 'axed' literally, then perhaps you should talk to the police. I don't think there any limitations on this type of assault. If the police were involved 32 years ago, they could re-open the file. Did he serve a prison sentence for his action. If so, you should let sleeping dogs die.
2007-02-18 03:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh wow you've got loads of opinons here so theres no point me answering but i get 2 points so what the heck.
basically it depends on what type of revenge u want killing him wont do so i think u should think hard on the type of revenge and anyway after 32 years isnt that kinda late for revenge
good luck hope u forget about it
2007-02-18 04:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of common sense here, take the advice and walk away. Is it really worth getting a criminal record for? Your choice, just be aware of the consequences if you do the same to this guy.
Don't be a fool, forget revenge.
2007-02-18 00:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by bluemax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋