I am sick & tired of people calling me a tomboy...I wanna become something other than that...what do I have to do or wear to become something different?! I turned 13 in jan by the way.And its time for a change,i need to pick a clothes style...and i have to take care of myself better...but how?! Please help?!
2007-02-17 15:41:38 · 33 answers · asked by {♥FiRa♥} 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
find a girl who you think looks good and ask her advice or look in one of the millions of girls magazines or online for ideas
2007-02-17 15:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I understand your situation completely, having come from that myself, only when i was about 15, not 13... but I was the BIGGEST tomboy! But, I've changed a lot. Start wearing make-up. Don't wear too much though, you don't want to look sleazy. Take care of your skin as you're now a teenager, make sure you smell nice. As for clothes, go to somewhere like American Eagle or Aeropostle and go to the girls section. Look through the clothes and see what you like. If you want to, ask a girl that seems to look "girly" to go with you to give you tips and point out what she would wear. Try some things on and see how they fit... Make sure it looks good. If you can't get someone to go with you, try asking an employee. They can be great at style tips, at least the ones in my area are. Well, I hope I helped, and good luck with your "transformation"!
2007-02-17 15:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was considered a tomboy when i was in school as well, if that's what is comfortable to you then don't worry about what others say. or you could try a little bit of make up, something simple like just eyeliner and if your hair is about to your shoulders or longer try pulling about half of it back in a loose ponytail. you can eventually wear girly outfits every now and then, but only if you feel comfortable in doing so. i am now 19 and i still dress like a tomboy but when im going out with my boyfriend i put on some nice girly clothes and do my make up and hair.
2007-02-25 15:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Over and Over 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by getting you a little makeup (not too much)you're only 13,get a few lacy tops that can also go with jeans and start acting like a girl and not do boy stuff. you can also buy a little jewelry,it don't have to be expensive.I was a tomboy myself by growing up with 6 brothers and I was also the youngest so I know what it's like.hang in there and do some of the things suggested and you will do ok
2007-02-17 15:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by preast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even i face the same problem..but i dont mind what sum ppl say..i like me the way i am. Ppl hu really matter 2 u will jus like u as u are..
but still if u wanna start dressin up lik a gal, go to the place which is famous for the latest fashion styles, and check them out..watch how ur frnds dress up..try new hair styles from ads or movies or tv shows..just add a little make up if u wanna..
2007-02-17 15:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Poornima V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, i was and still am somewhat of a tomboy. i used to get called one. look for inspiration and start out slow, dont drastically move on to pink, its ok to dress in whatever you want.
for instance i wear guys boxers, nobody notices and i think they are comfterable. also i have very short hair (faux hawk or just spiked up) but what i do to make myself look more like a girl is put on a little bit of mascara thats it though.
you dont have to follow fashion or Hilary Duff to become more of a girl, wear clothes you are comfterable in. but just add some feminine touches to it, so you can wear just jeans with a t-shirt and a jacket and then add a long necklace. or maybe what i do a lot is wear trousers, oversized blouse (from the guys section) and then cute little black heels.
and i have days where i dont wear girly stuff at all but wear my baggy jeans a baggy sweater my converse and hit the streets with my (guys) friends. be yourself, and mix things up! buy some fun little goods for yourself; mascara, body wash, maybe get a new haircut. treat yourself.
i personally think that you can wear 'men' inspiration clothes while being a girl, make sure you have a clean face, wear a little bit of make up, style your hair, and have a fresh smile on the go.
good luck. and remember be yourself dont change because your friends wear pink! be original!
2007-02-17 15:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can start by asking your mother or your best friend. Now that you have decided to wear non-tomboyish clothes just know that it will take some time for you to get used to. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in, not expose too much skin. Live something to the imagination, and that less is more.
2007-02-25 08:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay for starters who gives a FLYING RATS **** what other people think about you. If they don't like you because your not all girlie like them and they wanna **** blokes and get pregnant at a young age let them. If you feel comfortable in what you where and what you do then just be you don't try and be someone your not it won't work.
But if you personally wanna change, go to a fashion shop and ask for the advice they will be honest.
Good luck and hope you have fun shopping as thats what gilrs are best at.
2007-02-17 15:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, do you like who you are? if so, don't change yourself to please others. If not then here is my advice, whatever you do don't try and become a total girly girl right away! Try to go w/ a sister, friend or your mom (whoever you can think of that's girlier than you) to a store and just ask their advice on what is stylish or cute, just make sure that you feel comfortable in it and like it!
2007-02-25 15:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by dancingqueen2770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important thing is to dress however you like that makes you comfortable and confident in yourself. if you really want to dress more girly, try wearing more feminine colors like pink. don't wear clothes that are too baggy. wear hair accessories. try something besides sneakers sometimes, and wear cute flats or something. it's little things that can make you more feminine. don't overdo makeup, don't wear inappropriately tight clothes, and don't wear anything you're not comfortable with. :) don't worry too much about these things!! be happy w/ who you are
2007-02-17 15:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by peaches87 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well one brand of clothes that will really make you look like a chick is AMERICAN EAGLE.. i dont wear it but theres a lot of girls i know that wear that.. its a bit expensive but they have really nice clothes.. try to do ur hair differently like leave it down, curl it.. also buy makeup put some eyeliner.. if you dont know how then ask someone at ur school like a close friend.. or ask for some help.. you can also wear pretty eyeshadow matching ur clothes that you are wearing.. have fun
2007-02-17 15:46:14 · answer #11 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋