Two words hell ya. Have you ever heard of destroy and rebuild. To change, you have to self destruct in a good way burn all that you are(not literally) people don't change because they are too comfortable with the way they are, put yourself in a position that you have no choice but to change. Trust me it sounds stupid but you'll thank me later. From the master of change- there will always be people that know better then you but who knows better about themselves then you? Trust your instinct.
2007-02-17 16:12:32
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answered by dream on 1
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change in life is a day by day struggle,but if you wake up every morning and are still breathing then you still and will always have time to step back and take a minute to reflect on all the good or bad in your life and make a decision on how you want to better yourself in your own life. A little change out of the ordinary will drastically improve or hinder your way of life. So i guess what i am trying to say is as long as you can honestly consider yourself happy,i mean truly happy on the inside and out then in my eyes you are truly a changed person.For most people it takes years or even a lifetime to find that inner happiness,but if you live your life one day at a time and one adventure at a time knowing that no matter the struggle you are going through in life the basic fact that you are still alive should tell you that you have had the ability to change your life after all,if not you would have been dead already because this question has been lingering in your mind for longer then one day.
2007-02-18 01:27:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Given that ONE of the laws that the universe ( that we live in ) is;
"change IS the only constant". I'd say you can and you do. Also every time you decide Not to choose, the universe makes the choice for you. That's why we at times feel we are swimming upstream or umm Pis@ing in the wind.
We all need a push now and then, in fact sometimes I need a downright smack! Look up "The law of Attraction". I think that will really help. Also it takes about 40 days to break or change a habit, commit your self to being the best you FOR you! I believe in you and I know you can do it. You have the ability and responsibility to create an abundantly joyous life for your self.
Imagine creating your life by your daily thought process...wow isn't that amazing!!
Email me and keep me updated! Good job you just started to change!
Aloha.
2007-02-17 23:45:13
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answered by mauikittie 5
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You have to make the choice to change first of all then if you really want to make it happen you will do whatever it takes. I smoked for 17 years and I wanted to quit and my husband did not so I went across the country for two weeks without him and quit there then came home so that he would not influence me to keep smoking. I am now a non smoker of 8 months. You can do it if you want to bad enough. Keep it up and good luck!
2007-02-17 23:36:52
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answered by freakyallweeky 5
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everyone can change their life. changing their personalities is whats hard. i haven't seen friends in years and when we run into each other they act the same the did 10 years before.
2007-02-18 00:30:33
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answered by Mos Def 1
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Yes, but you must make a decision with yourself. Make a deal. You CAN make a life change; although no one said it would be easy along the way, you can do whatever your heart desires. And, remember your motives.
2007-02-17 23:37:12
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answered by theflame_inside 2
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If you really want to change you can, I did.
2007-02-17 23:32:18
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answered by Jody 6
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go to peekvid and watch the secret it will help you tremendously to change ur life
2007-02-18 00:01:51
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answered by ? 5
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I CHANGED THEREFORE YOU CAN. I WAS AGNOSTIC FOR SEVERAL YEARS NOW IM CHRISTIAN.
MY MOTTO.
DROWN IN A POOL OF EVERYTHING YOU BELEIVE IN.
2007-02-17 23:32:24
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answered by Me..................... 2
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well it's never too late to be what you might have been
2007-02-21 12:51:12
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answered by Anonymous
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