So if i sex a chick other than my wife that means I don't love her. But I thought sex and love were two different things.
At least isn't that the excuse people use when they are being promiscous. Sex is just sex.
I am so confused here. So sex before marriage isn't love but after marriage sex and love are the same thing?
I just don't get it.
2007-02-17 15:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, they aren't the a\same thing, but many people tie them together inextricably.
to use your example, you go sex up some other chick likley means you were horny and wanted something that was different tan what was at home.
Doesn't mean you don't love your wife.
Some say sex is an expression of love, and sometimes it is. It does seem much better when it is done that way, however, sometimes a good romp of sex just for the sex is equally satisfying.
2007-02-17 15:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a physical act, primarily designed for the continuation of the species. Luckily, it's also a heck of a lot of fun, and feels really great.
Love is an emotion, a feeling. Love is what you feel when you see your spouse with a bad cold and realize you love them stuffy or well. Love is what you feel when your child smiles at you for the first time. Love is what makes long married couples smile when young couples are still vying for "control". Love can hurt. Love can change the world.
2007-02-17 23:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever loved a woman you would know the difference, or do you think prostitutes love every man they meet?
Love is a decision to remain commited, wheather it be wife, child, or even friend, commited to that relationship, not to betray that person, there are different kinds of love, even for your pet. you love your dog right? Then there is Agape love, that is for God.
Or you love your country, but the love of a man and wife, well, that love is personal, commited and romantic. It is a love of many facets. If they really love and one can't have sex for any reason, the love still endurs.
2007-02-17 23:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really isnt difficult if you think about it....
Sex: intercourse between 2 people
Love: 2 people who have come together, and have feelings, admiration, and the will to not live life without one another..
They are 2 differnet things... but when you combine sex, with the one that you have fallen in love with it usually has much deeper feelings, emotion & meaning.
2007-02-17 23:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by victoria81065 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored tonight, huh?
Love is an emotion, sex is an act. Some people express their love through sex (and other ways) but that doesn't make sex = love.
People can have sex with people they love and people they do not love.
People that love one another don't necessarily always have sex.
At least your questions are mildly interesting, even though they come across as completely bogus...lol!
2007-02-17 23:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is a gift given to you for when you get married...i has everything to do with love but the key is: if you LOVE a person, THEN you can have sex. It is not like, if we have sex I might fall in love with you. and 2 common misconceptions are: 1)sex is a thing that is bad and rebellious...it is just a sin to have it out of wedlock. 2)sex IS love. it ISN'T!
2007-02-17 23:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate how people make sex and love seem equivalent. sex is sex. love is love. they are not the same thing. I'm talking to the christians out there too, who put such an emphasis on premarital sex and sex outside of marriage. if you love someone, you probably wouldnt want to have sex with anyone else anyway.
2007-02-18 14:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Guy77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a physiological need.
Love it's an emotional feeling.
You don't need to be married to have sex with the person you love. And you can certainly have sex without any emotional attachment, like one night stand..
Being promiscuous just means that you don't love yourself.
2007-02-17 23:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have sex with someone other than your wife it is disloyal.. disloyalty=dishonor=no trust=no stability when you continue with no stability=you end up not caring when you end up not caring you =you dont love her..
many ppl use the excuse sex is sex.. (and many have that mindset)
sex before marriage isnt neccesarily not love (but a lot of society views it as not right by moral values.)..
basically sex is not love.. you can love without sex... vise versa.. but when commited.. sex is apart of that love ,honor, trust,and stability..
2007-02-17 23:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by lndsylcs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex insent love its when two ppl and at there highest point in hornyosety and they u know insert. Love is when u feel u must be with her (or him in some cases) but you really dont know why u just want to see here face one more time.
2007-02-17 23:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋