I was reading old questions and found the question regarding dating an ex that had cheated on the man. I ask, why would you want to date someone that cheated on you? You say that you have a relationship with a wonderful woman, why would you risk this relationship to go back to something that you have already experienced that was bad for you? Wouldn't you be cheating on this woman that you are already in a relationship with? What makes you better than your ex if you do this to the woman that you are already in a relationship with? Is there a future with the woman that you are having a relationship with? Don't you think this is very unfair to the woman you are having the relationship with? Don't you think that she will be hurt? I think you need to be honest with yourself, the woman you are having a relationship with, and your ex. How many relationships has your ex been in, and how many relationships has this other woman been in? Pick stability and trust. You'll be happier.
2007-02-17 15:05:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know what you mean. I agree.
Two exes having sex are "in lust", not love. And they don't realize that that is why their relationship didn't work the first time. It has got to hurt the new partners when they find it out. Hope they run away fast.
2007-02-25 09:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is given and then it is earned. Everyone starts out w/ trust until it is broken. Who ever said ex were bad? Sometimes ex were great relationships but due to issues at the time, cicumstances change things & ya break up! Doesn't mean you didn't have something special. Doesn't mean a new time 4 you later . Just ask those that have remarried each other. SEE>>>> it happens doesn't mean it works either . Each situation is different.Having many relationships gives you the opportunity to find what you want.Sometimes stability is out of your control. {like my 1st husband who insisted on divorce} It crushed me but was a good decision in the long run I suppose.Honesty is the best policy always.
2007-02-17 15:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are un-understandable man. Your ex had cheated you, and now you have a relationship with a wonderful woman but you still have a relationship with your ex too. I'm sure you still love your ex, you don't care if she will hurt you again. Yeah, sometimes love makes us crazy.
2007-02-25 15:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me. I want to know why people leave stable relationships for a mere roll in the hay for someone with no character.
I love sex as much as the next guy, but want a meaningful relationship.
2007-02-25 10:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are just finding hidden feelings for your ex. You probably tried to get over the past 2 fast, that it comes bak 2 haunt u everyso often...u shud really consider and sit down and think about how n who u really feel you have more feelingz for...
2007-02-24 16:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ti-Ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i bekeive is people can change, yet , if you willing to give them another chance why not makes things up with him/her? Some people just cannot except the fact that they've been dumped! So maybe this time round is a revenge time!! "People do change, but leopard won't change it spot"
2007-02-24 20:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by naniebootilicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't because what broke our marrige up might happen again and i wouldn't want to go threw the same torment
2007-02-23 03:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, you are ate up.
2007-02-25 14:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it all. this person had to be pretty stupid.
2007-02-24 23:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋