Sex is good with my current (2nd sex partner)bf, but I can't ever get an orgasm. My first had a very big c***, it was very painful and I think he made some damage. I can't reach orgasm when masturbating either. The most I've gotten was a wanting to pee sensation, and then it goes away. Suggestions?
2007-02-17 14:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Maggie 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Keep trying different ways of masterbation ... like clitoral stimulation , toys ... there are MANY different types of toys you can buy once you find the thing that makes you then talk with your boy friend make sure and make it clear he isnt doing anything wrong guys tend to have feelings on there shoulder about such things ...
2007-02-17 16:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in luck.
Many women feel like they need to pee when they are about to reach orgasm. I suggest you masturbate while sitting on the toilet (or standing in the shower), that way you will feel safe. If you accidentally pee, then at least you won't make a mess. But if you do climax, which is likely, then you will be able to have an orgasm without fear of accidentally peeing.
Just remember, you can't try to hold in your pee, you'll just end up stopping the orgasm instead and no one wants to do that!
2007-02-21 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can relax about damage. Unless you had very rough sex with Mr Big.
There is such a thing as an orgasm gene maybe you don't have it.
Besides that forget sex in the physical location its mostly in your head. Try sex without touching each other our selves.Build it up but don't go there. Develope your senses.
2007-02-17 15:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by 1550LMBU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have to explore your body in order to know what pleases you. Relax, try not to think of anything at all, just tune to sensation. You might get the feeling you need to pee, it is normal. Just continue, and breathe.
After you know what it feels like and what makes you feel good, do it with your partner.
2007-02-17 15:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it -- orgaasm is essentially a male thing -- males can't reproduce without it. Females who have moderate to high levels of male hormones can usually orgasm too, but women with low levels of male hormones can't.
2007-02-19 10:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would call in on the talk sex with sue show. Seriously.Or call a dr.
2007-02-17 17:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Heather e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the OBGYN right away!
2007-02-17 14:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-21 14:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋