My friend is married he loves his wife as well as his x-girl friend. They don't see each other and living in different country. He says:" I recpectfully love her in different way." How dose it possible. What do you think?
2007-02-17 14:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is wishing he was with this other woman - maybe.
From what you have said here tho, I don't think it's cheating. Cheating is all about intent.
2007-02-17 14:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Emmy F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not cheating in the way that he's not "acting out" in his feelings for his x-gf. But if circumstances where different (if she lived nearby), maybe he would act differently, we'll never know.
I think it's perfectly healthy to have crushes, or fantasize about other people, while still married (who hasn't thought of someone else while having sex, even if it's just for a second). So it's OK.
We can't be masters of our spouses minds, and it's not healthy to aspire to be.
2007-02-17 22:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. To love someone "in a different way" is not cheating. To act on it is a different story.
2007-02-17 22:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not cheating. Just because he has love for her doesn't mean that he wants to be with her, that he wants to screw her, or anything like that. There are different types of love, and he knows the difference.
2007-02-17 22:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends ask him does he love his wife as much as his ex girl friend in a happy way. or Does he say carcasticlly i love my wife as much as i love my ex girl friend. But dont take my advice u should let them settle it out
2007-02-17 22:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not cheating. You can love your children, parents, siblings, spouse, friends, pets ...... all in different ways. There's different types of love.
2007-02-17 22:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM..if they were in the same city, he'd be on her like a rabbit.
He needs to let his ex go on with her life. She needs to get one.
And he needs to put his energy into his wife.
2007-02-17 22:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not cheating. Until he gets involved with her.
sexologists say that it is normal for a man to be unfaithful to his wife
http://english.pravda.ru/main/18/90/359/16504_adultery.html
2007-02-17 22:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cub F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that cheating, no....what has done other than proclaim something? If that is cheating, I don't know what this world is coming to...
2007-02-17 22:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not really cheating as long as he does nothing about his feelings for the ex.
2007-02-17 23:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋