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I Love My Boyfriend as everyone knows by now sorry i have loads of problems this is the first place where ive got loads of good advice keep it up guys.

Basically My Boyfriend Is A Little younger than me so many of his friends i dont know.
but there are some girls he knows which have started spreading rumours about how i dont love him and how i just want him for the money etc.
They are so Untrue I Love Him But I Feel like every day people just cant wait for us 2 break up.
I Tried to rise above the rumours but people jus keep going on and on :( I Jus Wnt People To Stop Butting In all the time :( xxxx

2007-02-17 14:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by Charlee j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

6 answers

Aww I know what its like to have a relationship like that. Its like a public affair where everyone has to know what your doing. Its annoying I know. Your doing the right thing just ignore the rumors. Dont give them anything to feed the fire. If your boyfriend loves you he will understand that people are lying.

2007-02-17 14:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I have a question.. this guy you met at the party.. did you cheat on your boyfriend or is there just a strange little love triangle going on?

My advice is as follows:
Your boyfriend is younger, but you are a teen, so anyone who says you are after him for the money is an idiot. However, people are going to keep saying stupid things, because that is just what they do. If you really love him, then stay will him and tell them to bugger off!

People will butt in. It is the nature of any romance whether you are 13 or 30.

2007-02-17 22:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0 0

talk to your bf about it. it seems liek you both really love eachother alot (how long have you been together) it shouldnt matter that much unless you are over 18 years old. and he is 14 or somethign odd like that. ignore what other peopel say. you are right they are trying to tear you guys apart much liek the paparrazi do to all of the celeb couples.. but ignore them. have a long talk with your bf and talk abotu all of he rumors and set them to rest. and then from thre on jst ignore the immarutree girls. they probabaly just want thim. but you both must trust eachther enough to know that these rumors are not true. they shouldnt even be bothering you.. if he believes these other girls and not his own gf then i would say so long to him! obviosly he does not trust you if he thinks that. so sit down and talk. theres not much you can do to keeps people fat mouth shut in this day n age...

2007-02-17 14:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0 0

Ahh, yes the power of rumors. First of all you have to feel comfortable with yourself & accept yourself, THen have faith & confidence in your relationship & your boyfriend. I think it is important to have a conversation with him about these tedious problems. Does he believe them? Is he comfortable with the relationship? How does he feel? exc. If he really loves you & trusts you, then hopefully he will ignore the childish rumors. YOu are letting the rumors get to you & thats what thsoe girls want! They want you to bbreak up with him, they want to push you to the edge! In some twisted phycotic way they get joy, entertainment & laughter out of your reaction, or your pain. There are alot of people like that in the world. My guess is that the girls are just snobs or they like your boyfriend. My explanation could be wrong but thats not the point. Your falling just like they want you to, just like they excepted. YOu & your bf have to raise above their childish remarks. If you truely love your bf & he truely loves you then its not worth it to break up just because of a few idiots who have nothing better to do with their lives! Its your life & you & your bf's relationship, but those idiots are in control, thier the ones behind the drivers seat, they are making you second guess things exc. You have to take that power back, & you both need to have the relationship. If you guys break up later its ok, life happens, but it should not be for this reason! Good Luck!!. I know teenage life is dramatic!

2007-02-17 14:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Carly 5 · 0 0

Ignore the rumors sooner or latter they'll get tired of this also remind your boyfriend everyday ( ok not EVERY day) that you really do love him and its not true don't let something silly like this break the two of you up!!!!! good luck

2007-02-17 15:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0 0

i know how u feel because the same thing happens between me and my girl but your going to have to learn not to pay attention to it. there are so may people who are probably jealous and that's why the start the roomers.

2007-02-17 16:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Nasty One 2 · 0 0

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