My Dad Seems Jealous Of My Boyfriend...
I spend most of my time with him and i really like him
my dad just seems wierd he likes him but i dont want to fall out with my dad he is already annoyed with me :(
what should i do to get on the right side of him? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-17 13:47:25 · 12 answers · asked by Charlee j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
How old are you? this may be the issue, loosing his baby to someone is hard at any age but too young is even harder. You are in a tough place. you need to spend time with dad, don't leave him out and reassure him. He may tell you if you ask. that is the best way to know what he is thinking and open a discuaaion about it. Good luck.
2007-02-17 13:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think one of the toughest things for girls to deal withis the fact that, once upon a time, their fathers were the teenagers dating pretty young girls and knew what they were thinking at that time in their life about girls, now some one is thinking the same things about their little girls and it drives dads insane. The best thing you can do is accept the fact that no matter how old you get, no matter what you look like to the outside world, your father will always see you as that wide-eyed innocent little 7-9 year-old who called him 'daddy'. Maintain a relationship with him. If you are having problems understanding your boyfriend, ask him. And listen to what he says. Once he feels comfortable with the fact that you feel you can approach him with these things, he'll relax. Be proud, he probably doesn't think too highly of your boyfriend because he doesn't think he is good enough for you. Bad news, you aren't going to find a boy he WILL think is good enough for you.
Bottom line, maintain your lines of comunication with him and know that he probably has a better idea of your boyfriends thoughts and motives than you do. Us dads are funny that way.
2007-02-17 21:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by darthanimal2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean my mom is the same way. Its just that he has been with you for all your life and feels like your growing up to fast. He has a hard time sharing you. I think that the best way to go about him stoping feeling like this is if you set aside some time everyday just to go talk to him or sit and ask how his day was. It will make him feel like you care about him still and that you havent forgot about him. But other than that parents never want to see their childeren go out into the world!! Hope that helped.
2007-02-17 21:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crossed Palms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dads have a difficult time letting go of their little girls, especially since THEY were once the guys taking girls out!
Reassure him that you are being careful, and not doing anything he wouldn't approve of (but if you are-LIE! just kidding)
Invite your guy to come over and have a talk with your dad.
2007-02-19 21:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is one thing you must always remember. Daddy's never like boys who are after their little girls. There is absolutely nothing you can do about it. THe only thing that can be done is if your dad picks someone out for you. Just shrug it off. It will be like this with almost every boy. Goodluck
2007-02-17 21:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are daddy's little girl and always will be. Tell your dad that you really like this guy and u are happy and reassure him that no matter what, u will always be his little girl no matter how old u get. My dad was the same way and he just didnt want to see me get hurt. To do this day, even tho i am 27, he tells me that i am still his little girl and i always will be
2007-02-19 01:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's not jealous, i mean, why would he want to be your boyfriend, thats just a little too weird. He's probably just concerned for you and maybe he doesn't really trust your boyfriend despite what he says...
2007-02-18 00:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Your dad probably doesn't trust your boyfriend. He is being a real Dad. I do not think he is being jealous. He is being protective. Talk to your Dad about how you feel.
2007-02-17 21:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is natural. ur dad just doesn't like the idea of another man being in ur life. he just thinks ur bf will take his place and u wont need ur dad any more. solution- make ur dad feel needed and let him know that he will always be the # 1 man in ur life. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-19 03:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be jealous because you're spending alot more time with your boyfriend instead of him..
2007-02-17 21:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋