2007-02-17 13:18:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask that question, then the answer is NO! You're definitely NOT ready! When you get ready, you'll KNOW!
2007-02-17 13:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not for the present------- enjoy life with no responsibilities, have a great holiday, camping can be fun and not expensive when the weather gets better; Put more effort into your work as now you have the time and the energy. Marriage and kids are not a solution they are a possibility when you are ready for this responsibility both financially and emotionally. If you are questioning the possibility don't do it. You still have a lot of living to do and learning so that one day you will be better able to advise your kids if you take this road in the future.......
2007-02-17 21:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by njss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should get married or have children if they need to post a question on Yahoo asking others if they should. The drive to build a family comes from within, and it is only this drive that allows many to persevere through all of the challenges family life provides.
2007-02-17 21:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do we know?
Do ~you~ want to get married and have kids???? It is afterall, a personal decision ...
Would you be a good and loving spouse and a good and loving parent?
Can you provide for your children?
If you aren't certain, then I'd definately say "NO." There are enough ~poor~ parents out there these days. And by poor I don't just mean only financially ... I mean "parents" who have no clue about what a child needs: who are not emotionally, mentally, physically or financially able to provide for their children.
2007-02-17 21:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to find someone that you want to spend your whole life with as a wife. A special someone that you very happy with. She also feel the same way about you. Maybe you and the wife need to volunteer somewhere to take care someone else kids. To see if both of you are ready to be parents.
2007-02-17 21:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married when you are ready to settle down for your entire lifetime - and remember what lifetime means!!!!
Don't have kids until you are ready to give up at least 50% of your time to them and them only! Kids are a hard responsibility all by themselves besides a job, house, husband, etc. etc. etc.
2007-02-17 21:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give really information for anyone to answer that ? for you. I can only say that when you get married and have kids your life isn't yours anymore there are others depending on you. So think really hard that, that is what you want.
2007-02-17 21:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Debra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staright up? It's the finest, that any person can feel. The best Drug, that anyone can have in their System. I'm a Father of Three. And a Grandfather of two, (Boys). And it just gets better, every day. No reward, would give you more satisfaction.
2007-02-17 21:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have experienced different women,have sowed your wild oats, are in love marry her. Make sure that you are two are good friends also.
I recommend having kids. Make sure that you are patient with them and play with them. Talk to them as people and not anything less.
2007-02-17 21:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by loveistheanswer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you getting ahead of yourself? I mean, I would think that first you'd need to meet somebody really nice, figure out they'd make a good mother/father and want to stick it out with you.... You get the picture? And what do we know about you?
2007-02-17 21:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no~
"young hearts be free"
Connie stanton
Men lie cheat and steal, your kids will grow up to be brats and take you for granted
stay single enjoy the world
borrow a neighbors kids
bring them home by noon the next day
2007-02-17 21:21:24 · answer #11 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋