No serious im not a bad looking girl NO IM NOT VAIN and were not talking about me...I am used to dating goodish looking guys....My newish boyfriend is so ugly its unreal...serious Fat and a face of gunge.....
Im just curious clearly everyone has standards and turn on and offs but i have actually been wondering do ugly people every have a girlfriend...Im talking about really ugly people as in EXTRA fat as in EXTRA SPOTTY as in GEEKY you know extreme ugly.....
i mean this guy is nearly thirty and he thinks he has had relationships when his whole 4-6 girls have left him between 1 - 4 mnts......
he has no sex life and is going bald since like 26 he more interested in eating then anything....yuck....no can someone answer the question seriously
DO YOU KNOW ANYONE UGLY?
IF SO DO THEY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND / BOYFRIEND?
IF SO ARE THEIR PARTNERS UGLY ASWELL?
IF SO CAN THE REALLY FIND EACH OTHER ATTRACTIVE OR IS IT DESPERATE CAUSE THEY CAN GET WHAT THEY WANT?
2007-02-17 13:04:58 · 22 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IM SO GLAD I ASKED THIS QUESTION?
I know im a nice person i have a heart of gold and do anything for anyone half the time i am treated like a mug cause im so nice so whatever to that...
im shallow how i didnt say im some goddess...all i said is there are beautiful people and there are ugly people i can be friends with all sorts of people asian chinese african white pretty ugly rich or poor i have friends on all levels ....so shallow no
what im more asking is could you be with someone who is not attractive if so how do you orgasm how do you feel cuddle with them if they are so ugly its not shallow its fact....what if your partner had fungus greasy mucas spots that bleed and gush out would you feel attracted to them no....or if they had boobs for a man would you feel sexual attracted no its your standards....and we all have different levels so come off callking me shallow
2007-02-17 13:14:41 · update #1
people please be honest we all say this beauty is in the eye of beholder or its inside yes there is beauty in your personailty but there is also looks you have pretty people ugly people and ok please stick to the question..as women and men are the same men have standards they like women who are blonde or brown haired thin or curvy pretty eyes women we like different things so you have your standards would you go out with the first grease ball then just cause they were friendly but looking at them turned you off....i know men dont do that at all..........be honest please im really interested
2007-02-17 13:17:27 · update #2
lol parkfeild thats honest thats what im doing aswell i keep trying to want to be with him i mean i barely touch him he is so ugly i never let him kiss me it makes me want to puck
2007-02-17 13:18:48 · update #3
actually pinky he does know i have told him i care alot about him as a friend but im not attracted to him he cries and sticks around you know what i not angry for those saying bad things as you dont know me i am a very nice person i am just asking what people think as its easy to say you would be with a ugly person but would you really look at your bloke or women know what ever it is you find attractive about them then think of the opposite if its cause they are curvy would you like dead on skinny with greasy hair no bum,,,or women if you like a man with a toned stomach would you like a guy with 5bellys thats bigger then his thing and you have to roll up out the way think about it really stop trying protect ugly people as we all think the same.......i dont think we should hurt ugly people im not trying do that im just trying get peoples opinions
2007-02-17 13:24:46 · update #4
last time i have told this guy how i feel and he creeps me out he follows me around throwing his money at me and if he wants to act stupid i dont care what guy lets a girl tell him she dont want to be with him she doesnt find him attractive then go take her shopping....he is stupid so im going stay with him till i find someone else might aswell as he moreless stocks me if i dont and plus i like him as A FRIEND
2007-02-17 13:26:50 · update #5
OK AND HE HAS NO PERSONALITLY OK so can we stop talking about him!!! serious he is the dork in the back who doesnt every speak at all....never he never talks at all so he is ugly in two ways no personality desperate and ugly ok call me shalllow for that he is weried he has stocked me before he begs me for hand jobs so the more everyone slates me about him im not a bad person so stop judging me this is just one guy with no hope it doesnt mean i don like other people were their looks arent so lucky
2007-02-17 13:29:30 · update #6
shallow people either find what they want as they have a high criteria or end up loney for being shallow im not shallow....!!! i have dated ugly and pretty people this was not the question but im starting to assume that there is people out their with low confidence maybe not so good looking and your lashing out at this question .....
2007-02-17 13:31:20 · update #7
beautiful geek that is the most bull i have ever heard what did your 36/7 yr old bloke leave his misses to come cradle snatch you at 20/1 cause your pretty and slim....no wear and tear....ok good luck with that relationship...;when he hits 40 cant get it up no more and your still in your youth...when you grow up and no being a toy girl to an old man then come answer my ?? that made me laugh
2007-02-17 13:39:52 · update #8
1. yes i know someone
2.no they don't have anyone who even gives them a second glance
3.their partner question can only be answered if they get any
4.yes its desperation
5.no nobody on earth gets what they want ugly or beautiful
2007-02-17 13:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why are you going out with him if hes so ugly? I think in this stone age way to much is juged by face vaule. I think that everyone has a soulmate or atleast someone who is right for them wheather they are ugly or not. Im not ugly but Im not the best looking person ever. So I guess what im saying is that yes I think everyone goodlooking or not can have a happy realationship.
2007-02-17 13:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey you mentioned blonde and brown haired people but what bout ginger etc are they ugly to you.As i am ginger, slim but im not exactly beautiful and i feel like that because of people like you. But the difference is i do have a heart of gold as i see beauty in everyone, you need to grow up or you will just end up lonely all of your life as no one is perfect, we all have our not so good things about us.
Grow up.
2007-02-18 04:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going out with someone that you thing is v ugly and makes you want to puke everytime he touches you. Grow up and get a life and stop leading this bloke up the garden path he may be ugly but at least he's prob got feeling unlike you.
2007-02-17 13:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by gaulde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just have to say... I'm 21 (slim, stunningly beautiful) planning on getting married and already living with a 36 year old. he's fat and ugly and geeky all the lovely words you described you shallow bint. he has a heart of gold and i love him more than anything, he is my world.
maybe you should find an equally attractive moron to spend your life with... though no doubt he'll leave you when you hit 30 for a younger model.
also just to add, you are using him for money? keeping him around even though you know he has such low self esteem? you are not just shallow... you're a whore. he's the weird kid in the back because people like you make him feel like crap. people aren't weird... they are made to feel weird by selfish horrible bints like you who manipulate them for what they can get.
p.s to add to you comment, my partner has been married once before and left behind by someone like you. an uncaring and self obsessed whore.
actually i looked like crap when we met, i was getting over ovarian cancer you see, so i had no hair and was very pale. he had a different form of cancer when he was 16. so that's why we hit it off, not because i was beautifull, because 2 years ago (yes 2 years) i wasn't. we fell in love because of our life experiences and our love for music.
It's not just me being niave either, he truely is in love with me. and by me i mean my mind and my personality, not the way i look. he admires my outspoken attitute and the way i defend things i believe in. he loves my hippy streak in which all i desire in truth is for everone to live happily and without limits imposed upon them.
you are a very closed minded individual and i'm sorry if i'm ranting a little bit now, but you are really hurting this guy. if you aren't interested tell him to go away. you are keeping him around for your own amusement and it's sick and twisted.
2007-02-17 13:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Pat 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
so tell me why exactly is he YOUR "bloke" you're slagging him like it's no1's business why are really going out with some you consider to be "ugly"? I've seen ugly people in my life and they lead normal lives just like beautiful or so called pretty people do.
2007-02-17 13:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You obviously should not be going out with him. If you care for him so little that you would go on the internet and publicly advertise how horribly, terribly, awfully ugly he is, you really shouldn't be with him.
2007-02-17 13:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by abigillygal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?
Miss Tee - Angels, Lovers and Friends all come in different guises. It's what's in the heart that counts!
2007-02-17 13:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think your obsessed wth ugliness.
But i am seeing a guy who is ugly,i cant stand him kissing or touching me but i'm just using him for his money so it's all good :-)
2007-02-17 13:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wtf .... you are shallow, you might not think you are but you definitely are!!! Some people look beyond physical attraction and find beauty in someones personality, so yes less physically attractive people can seem amazingly beautiful to someone (who aren't shallow) maybe when you mature you will be able to do that.
2007-02-17 13:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋