weve been together 2 yrs and she works and i stay home with her kids but i feel like she gets to leave and when i try she gets all mad!
2007-02-17 12:08:07 · 9 answers · asked by casper.t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she is working to support your family then I understand where she is coming from. She is going out to work. Not hanging out. If you need to get out get a sitter and both of you go out. If she were going to hang out then you would have a foot to stand on.
2007-02-17 12:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good babysitter and go out with her once or twice a month. A good way to find one is through local high schools. Call and ask if they have a job board or job listings. Get a part-time job somewhere and work a few hours of the week, if theat's what you want to do. Maybe leave the kids with her every once in a while and go out with your buddies. You two should have separate lives, but not so separate you begin to lose touch with one another. Explain that you need to get out of the house every once in a while.
Best Wishes,
LB
2007-02-17 20:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raised by a house husband, too.
Here's the thing: she goes to work all day and is probably stressed when she comes home. You're at home all day, but taking care of children is a job.
Why not encourage her to take 30 minutes of "me time" before she comes home? When she comes home, she'll feel a bit more rested and will then give you some "me time" too. I think that will help.
2007-02-17 20:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen talk to her, Many women can't handel staying at home, just as many as men in fact. What you have beneath your pants dosen't decide whether or not you can take care of kids, but you want to get out. Listen if you love her then talk to her. Talk to her and if she loves you too then it will work out, just take a few steps, just offer a hand. she knows it's hard for you, yet just make sure that when you do it you are honest.
2007-02-17 20:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kpohil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate Communicate Communicate. You need to tell her how you feel. Do it non-confrontationally and seek a compromise. Maybe you are no longer in love, or you are and you feel abused, which would make us all mad. But you wont know and get past it unless you discuss it with her. Good luck.
2007-02-17 20:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need an outside job away from the home. Not many men can handle not being the "bread winner" in a relationship. You sound like one of them. You also may be depressed.
2007-02-17 20:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a break..and you need to explain that to your patner...
she needs to understand that.
You 2 need to sit down and talk about it..because if you spend alot of times around 4 walls..and dont get out much..you will become..angry...stressed...and so on..and that is obviously not a good thing.
2007-02-17 20:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like resentment to me. Maybe you two should sit down and discuss this.
2007-02-17 20:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need to get out sometime. you can't stay in the house all the time! if she gets mad...... so be it.
2007-02-17 20:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋