2007-02-17 11:52:44 · 14 answers · asked by mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't try to "get back" at him...he's not worth the time, or effort. Move on with your life. Leave his worthless butt, and let his "new" woman deal with him! I pity the poor soul!
2007-02-17 12:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The funny thing about this question is that as much as you hate him right now, if you have kids, by hurting their dad, you hurt them too. Don't bother being ugly to the new honey. She'll be ugly back.(I'm a second wife and have had to come down sometimes...) Don'tcc fight with him. Don't give him any information about your new life. And GET a new life. Become a big success (okay, not for revenge on him, but for you) but in the meantime, you are entitled to spousal and child support, so make sure that you get that. Don't let him get out of visitation with his first family. In fact, accomodate visits. (This will cut into his new "social life" too!)
Get a good lawyer, make sure that your settlement is good. He needs to help cover things like dance classes and braces and college. Make sure that this is in it.
But mostly, live well. The only person whose actions you can choose are yours. Be the best woman you can. And know that "that which goeth around cometh around".
God bless.
2007-02-17 12:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get even with them is to live well, be happy, be successful, and should the day come when you're paths cross again they'll see how fantastic you look, how great you're doing, and realize how stupid and pathetic they are! Other than that, I wouldn't waste anymore of your time or energy on this. It's already cost you too much already.
2007-02-17 12:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge. Do not let yourself fall apart. He is obviously not worth it. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. With a positive attitude you will find bigger and better things in life. If it helps, chances are he will cheat on her too, because if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Good luck on a new beginning.
2007-02-17 12:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be to do nothing. After all, he's the one that has to start all over again AND with a new baby - where's the envy there? All said and done, what goes around comes around; just hope you're there to witness his comeuppance. He didn't deserve you in the first place.
2007-02-17 11:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way? Grow up and start acting like a normal responsible person.
2007-02-17 11:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that living well is the best revenge. So move on with your life and be happy.
2007-02-17 11:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and live a happy life with someone else.
2007-02-17 11:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New hair, new clothes, new makeup, new body, new boyfriend and a nice new sports car! (and don't forget a new "I'm sexy and single" attitude)
He'll see what he lost.
2007-02-17 12:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray for him.what goes around comes around.good luck
2007-02-17 12:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋