ok..there is a newgirl in our school..and we are like bf's already..but, i feel like she is taking advantage of me..like she doesnt really like me. she is always ignoreing me and leaving me for someone else. and then over febuarary break she is going to DC(actually she is tomorrow) and she hasnt even tried to contact me or anything..she ended up spending the night at another friends house and she prolly doesnt care that she is hurting my feelings..i dont know what to do, but i dont wanna lose a friend...HELP!!!
2007-02-17 11:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by cute_shorty_878 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is very considerate of you. You are a great friend. Take the initiative to talk to her. Honestly tell her how u feel left out. Seeing she is leaving tomorow, email her tonite and wish her she has a great break in DC. You will miss her and cherish about the friendship. Yall friendship is not stable. Be careful now. Believe me, if she turns you down, you are better off without her. Pray for her once again. Friends come and go. Wish you the best.
2007-02-17 11:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to be so sensitive perhaps a little more casual as she is new to the school she is probably eager to meet more people so you should be too. Probably try for a wider range of just friends and not worry so much about the best friend concept and concentrate more on school work as this is where the future lies. The friend problem will sort itself out just try not to be so possessive and look at hobbies to keep yourself amused and interesting.......
2007-02-17 13:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by njss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
juss talk to her about it..say that you like being her friend.but friends are supposed to hang out and stuff..and if she doesnt want to hang out and shes ignoring you and leaving you for other people and not caring about your feelings..i wouldnt call her a friend..well not a best friend anyway....i know how some people are im in high school
2007-02-17 11:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by India™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is obvious. in order to salvage the friendship you have to tell her exactly how you feel. if things do not work out for the best then that is her loss and you know what i am sure you can find a better friend that won't ditch you just because she wants to make sure that everyone likes her and stuff.
2007-02-17 11:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all in good time. maybe she doesnt realize she is hurting you tell her.. she might understand if she isnt to stuck up or high on herself but it also sounds like you really like her..
2007-02-17 11:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by TG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her y r u doing this and if her blow u off, get another friend cuss she is obviously not your best friend
2007-02-17 11:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by mandy iz a cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋