to her about it. I want her to comfort me and be there to give advise to me. How do i go about talking to her about my problems?
2007-02-17 11:14:00 · 7 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you ask her if you could go to lunch with her or something that way you can talk to her then. Then she wont feel so awkward, do you have her number so you can call her after work or something?
2007-02-17 11:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very great that you found a close friend and be open up and share your feelings with her. Just do it naturally! No planning. You have to be able to be free toward your friend. If you have something botherin you now, then say it now. Just start off with, "i kind of have something bothering me" If she cares, she is triggered and ask more. Friends are to have friends backs. It doesnt matter where and when.
2007-02-17 19:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it somethings bothering you and you want her to know about it just talk to her on the side .if you's are friends as you say yous are then she will probley say what is it and then you can open up and tell her. if it busey at that time and yous get a free moment eather on break or before you leave that also may be a good time to speek up. i am sure she will be willing to lission and help you the best she could. good luck.....
2007-02-17 21:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one, dont do it at work. Go out after work and hang out and bring it up. It all depends on how open you can be with others and how up and receptive this friend is. Good Luck...
2007-02-17 19:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as close as you say you are then I would invite her/him out to dinner to talk, or somewhere private. I would not talk to her/him at work ; there may be other "ears" around listening.
2007-02-17 19:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being kind to co workers. Do Not take your personal problems to work it is unethical . If you have problems get councilor.
2007-02-17 19:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by H. D. Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and say "look...i have a problem and i feel close enough to you to share it...so will you listen?"
2007-02-17 19:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by i dream of you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋