Should I be concerned?

Question

Found out that my husband registered at match.com? Should I be concerned?

Answer 1

Yes, you should be concerned. Ask him about it. Find out what is going on and if there is anything you can do to save your marriage. If there isn't, get out now before he starts cheating and brings home something and passes it on to you! Someone committed to their marriage does not register with Match.com. Good luck

Answer 2

If it's a new registration then you will probably want to sit down with him and ask him why he registered at match.com. Registering on a dating site while he's married to you is disrespectful to you, to say the least.

Answer 3

Well lets look at the facts match.com is where people log on to find a match for themselves and you guys are married yes...... u should be concerned.....myspace is to make friends match.com is to meet a match u should get a match.com profile and e-mail pretending to be someone else and see what his real intentions are....

Answer 4

Without a doubt, you should be very concerned, what is he looking for on match.com. that he can't have with his own wife. Be observant and watchful for I am sure that other problems will come about from this.

Answer 5

Sounds to me he's looking for a date, being a player. If you care about your marriage, yes be concerned. When you confront him he will be angry with you and say he done it because of you. That's not even true, trying to blame his actions on you, turning around the question of why he registered at match.com.
If he's wanting to talk or be around other women than you then he is very inconsiderate of your feelings, and deceiving you.

Answer 6

You need to talk to your husband as soon as possible, to find out what's going on!

The nerve!

OR

If you want to get creative, you could set up a fake id and start messaging him, posing as someone else. You could probably then prove if he's on there to meet friends or hook-up. If you're very sensitive about this, I'm not sure if it's the best option for you. But if you really want to get to the bottom of it, it may be worth doing.

Think about it.

All the best.

Answer 7

Funny you should ask.After 6 deticated years, I found out that he joined Match.com and Pm-dating One cost 59-one30-bucks.Look on your charge card records,I believe these meat markets only accept credit cards. I moved out and the snake says if I would done this or that differently, he might not have been looking elsewhere. This is not uncommon for men to do this..after all they are the hunters arent they....Your house is out hunted,time to move on to greener pastures..Oh yes, and thanks to Viagra,even the old goats are moving on!

Answer 8

I'm with nay127nay. Sign up as somebody alse, get a really sexy piture through google and act like you are a whore in bed but really innocent otherwise, and contact him. I did that for a friend once whose boyfriend signed up with a dating service. Caught him!

I would not confront him right away, as he may lie or just be more careful about his computer activities. Just see for yourself what he is up to - you have the right to know.

Answer 9

Concerned, yes. Jumping to conclusions, no. You can ask him if there's a reason why, but don't automatically assume that he's cheating on you or looking for someone else. Let him know that you just happened to stumble upon it and it caught your attention. Don't be angry with him or he'll get defensive. Good luck!

Answer 10

How did you find out? Are you sure he did it? Have you mentioned to him, and do you want to register yourself? Get his user name and passwords and delete catagories of women who do what you won't. Change the profile. Improve your chances. Take a really bad picture of him, and submit it. Have some fun.