i was raped and was taken to somewhere i did not know where i was
2007-02-17 10:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by aznsexygirl_16 2 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
It sounds like you are lucky to even survive such an ordeal.
There is just one thing you need to do immediately.
Go to a hospital where they will care for you physically.
They will also notify your family, the authorities and organise for any counselling/emotional help you need.
Once your health is ensured you can work on family relationship and the legal problems later.
Do have these guys charged and prosecuted.
This has been tragic, but you can learn and grow from it.
2007-02-17 10:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't take a shower or bathe. Then, get off the internet!!!! Call the police and they will come get you and do a sexual assault kit. It doesn't hurt but they need to get DNA evidence. The longer you wait the harder it will be for them to find the attacker. Try to remember the smallest details of where you where and who was there. Tell the police everything you can remember. When they ask if you want to talk to a therapist, it is a good idea. My sister was raped when she was 14 and she held all her feelings in until we finally got her to talk to someone. She said it helped a lot. Remember, what they did to you isn't your fault. No matter how drunk you were or who you were with. You didn't ask to be attacked.
2007-02-17 11:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by invictus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were gang raped? You need to get medically screened for STD’s and pregnancy if that is the circumstance. Go to a hospital emergency room – even if it occurred more than a day ago. You must get care and advice from them and they can be trusted. They have to follow “hippa laws” – a strict confidentiality law. I have to wonder why you ran away from home? Abuse? If so, contact the department of social services in your area, and tell them everything. They may be able to provide you with housing, medical care, and help with surviving until things are sorted out.
Dear child – why don’t you care for yourself? It is the first order of business after all. You will have the charge of others’ lives someday, and if you are not o.k. where will the others after you be? Ask who led you to this painful end, and don’t exclude yourself from the answer. Be honest with yourself, and come to a better place, if not for you, the others that come after you that will look to you to trust themselves in. If your parents do not abuse you, then call them to let them know you are alive, and need to make peace with the past in order to move forward positively in the future.
I thin that most do what you do- (run away) is because there is something missing – is it you feel you are not loved? Not worthy? And I would say that that who ever gave you these messages are evil, and dead wrong. There is more to you, and perhaps more than even you know of for right now. Do not allow yourself again to ever be among those that are not trustworthy – that means those that would take advantage of you in times of pain and crisis, which is what you seem to have possibly endured. Make a promise to yourself that when ever you are feeling in this state, that you will go to only those you can know with absolution that they have your best interest in the forefront – above all else. This may even be something you can work on in your future and if your parents are safe enough to approach, then share this thought with them – they will be all the more grateful, so they don’t ever have to endure the pain of knowing how you put yourself in the danger of being abused again. This may even turn out to be an opportunity to become closer with your folks and it’s a wonderful feeling to be honest and on the same page with your folks. Being a teenager is the hardest time of life in my opinion, and don’t thin that your folks don’t have a clue – they do indeed, and perhaps if you ask them to be honest with you about their hard times when they were your age, you may find that it wasn’t that so much different for them either, and can become closer than you ever thought you could. Love yourself, and take such very good care of you from now on! You are special, and don’t let anyone take from you ever, ever, again! ï Be the receiver of respect, and accept it graciously – then healthily return it. ALWAYS. It’s a life law that works.
2007-02-17 11:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go home. Go to the police. Go get checked for STD's. Go to counseling and work on the problems you are obviously having with your family and those that will crop up from this experience.
I'm saddened to hear of your awful experience. But you can mend. This incident doesn't define you as a person. Be well.
2007-02-17 10:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by voodooacrobat 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Police?
Rape Crisis Center?
Go back home?
2007-02-17 10:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you werent raped..cause you said you slept with 6 guys..Go back home with your parents..You have no business at 16 being away from home...Get some sense and use it...
2007-02-17 10:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tamitay 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Go to a doctor and have yourself checked for std. Follow good advice and stay away from trouble, don't learn your lesson when it's too late.
2007-02-17 10:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by arecibena_ausente 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you slept with 6 guys, then you say you were raped. which one was it?
2007-02-17 10:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Joe w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get to the police immediately!! Then go home.
2007-02-17 12:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by karrie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should pray take a aids test and if a crime was commented tell the police.
2007-02-17 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋