He works tues - sat. from 8am-5:30pm.He goes to school Mon- thurs from 6-10pm. I work from 3pm-11:30 mon- fri. Sunday is the only day that we have for each other. Other than that we only catch up with each other in the morning when he's leaving and at night when I get off.Most of the time he's already asleep . Sometimes I get really lonely. I need companionship.I love him to death. Once a week is not enough for me. Sometimes I feel like cheating but I never do.I need some advice or an opinion.
2007-02-17 10:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Spring break is coming up... someone take some vacation time and get some time together. Also, try to see if you can get first shift work... just keep putting in for it and maybe you can move your hours around.
Try to connect in other ways as well.... can you see him for lunch? A lunch together would allow for you all to re-connect during the week when you are both awake. Be sure to schedule your weekends off together as well. I worked 3-11 for years and that is how I managed to see my hubby! Good luck!- dd
2007-02-17 10:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to change shifts so u can be together more. Or switch jobs if the one u have is one of those dime a dozens.
Dont cheat girl. He dont deserve that. And karma will come back to bite u square in the butt.
Trust me, i know. I lived it.
If you truly care for him, just try to adjust your schedules to make them more accomodating. Or perhaps on your friday nights, make a point to stay up a little late in order to spend more time with him. He sounds like a keeper, hes working and going to school too. U need to be supportive and work this out if you care for him.
Good luck.
2007-02-17 18:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cheat for one thing if you love your man you would not step out on him because that only says you don't love him. You should be able to find a little time in the morning before he goes to work or even after he comes home if you can wake him up, you can work it out according to his schedule he works unill 5:30 pm on sat and you are off you should be able to find time on saturday also.
2007-02-17 18:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer....you have two choices.
Stay and make your life busy for 6 days...and really try to pack as much as you can in on Sunday.
Or leave and find someone you may not love but who'll be there as much as you want.
2007-02-17 18:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, get something else to occupy your time while he is away-DO NOT CHEAT!!!
Everyone gets lonely, so get a pet, or read a book, or ask and answer a hundred or so of these questions and answers, but do not stray. You say you love him to death-then stick to it sister!
2007-02-17 18:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Learning is fun! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, be happy you two are in the same country. My husband is in IRAQ and even if I am lonely, or bored or whatever, I would never think of cheating on him! You have issues!
2007-02-17 18:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he getting out of living with you> A lot.
What are you getting? Not much. Wake up sweetie. At least I get his money and retirement when he dies, no matter how mauch he played around.
2007-02-17 19:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't cheat -- you guys need to fix your schedule so that you spend more time with each other -- see if that's an option -- if you don't then just let him go - no need to cheat on him
2007-02-17 18:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence says it all...You don't REALLY love him if you think abou t cheating whether you act upon it or not.
2007-02-17 21:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋