How can I spice up my sex life with my husband? His birthday is coming up and I want to do something special.
2007-02-17 10:17:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buy some sexy lingerie, buy silk rose petals and some chocolate covered strawberries.
When he comes home from work have him follow a trail of rose petals to the bed and you in the bed.
Have some chocolate strawberries to munch on. Great with sex.
With a little thought, a sexy outfit, and a dolled up wife, he will be in heaven.
You can offer to do something you don't do much. Ya know.....I can't get too descriptive here but what does he want or ask for that you may not do much?
2007-02-17 10:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Triplescoop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try an new sex position. Try tieing each other up. Maybe give each other a full body massage. You can act out one of his fantasies. You can go away for the weekend to some place really romantic.
2007-02-17 18:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's very personal and idiosyncratic.
But as a general rule, focus on what he likes and wants, not what you do.
And try not to set up a "This will be the greatest thing ever; you'll just love it." kind of vibe. That could create pressure and disappointment.
Remember, he's male, so focus on the act itself more than on any elaborate all-evening build-up.
2007-02-17 18:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how spicy it already is...you can give him oral sex going down the road...thats always a nice surprise...especially if you've never done it...you can do a striptease for him if thats a little too much...take him to a strip club...rent a video...buy a toy...there are lots of ways to do it...just make sure its not too much for either of you.
2007-02-17 18:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by ivy_trick_mess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrap yourself up as his Birthday present.
I suggest the clear cellophane wrapping and a huge red bow. He can come home, unwrap his present and get the party started!
Good Luck!
2007-02-17 18:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you not give him enough the rest of the year? Get him a present based on a passion, i.e. golf, music, sports, or gadgets. The sex should be the topper, the dessert.
2007-02-17 18:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you live in the UK you can buy a home pole dancing kit for about £50. There are other things you could do that like guys like, but I like to keep that a secret
2007-02-17 18:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough one because every person likes different things. Only you know what turns him on, does he like leather or lace, being dominant or submisive? Whatever the case build a fantasy around it. Good luck
2007-02-17 18:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sure what you have tried. But, role playing can be fun, video taping yourselves, just be sure to erase the tape or keep it somewhere very safe. Or, you could do it somewhere where there is a danger of getting caught, will heighten the mood.
2007-02-17 18:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before his birthday, wearing only a thong, have him fill out a fantasy menu. When he is done, look at it and say well I better start cooking. Take it from there.
2007-02-17 18:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋