going to be ditzy and shallow and doesn't deserve respect ? I'm not talking the "Ana Nicole" blonde-type...I'm talking about a classy-looking blonde that dresses nice and not trashy, although sometimes sexily. I think I realized there were some people thinking of me as this way and I subconsciously started acted more seriously and now I'm too dang serious about things. I even thought of dying my natural blonde hair to another color...like brown or red, just to test the waters and see if I noticed a difference in the way people perceive me and treat me. I didn't dye my hair for various reasons, but it was tempting. Poor me, right ??? = )
2007-02-17 09:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
2007-02-17 09:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by sticky.fngrz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! I'm 36 years old and realized many years ago that one should not have a preconceived notion about anyone they have not talked to long enough to get to know. Long enough for me is 3 sentences from you. The first one, a little nervous... blow that off. The second one, you're trying to figure me out and might not be acting yourself, so throw that one out too. By the third one, you've realized that I'm a really nice guy and you start acting yourself.
So when you're getting to know someone you have a little chemistry with, don't monopolize the conversation. Speak then listen, then speak, and listen again. If you listen more than you speak, you're doing great. That's why we have two ears and only one mouth.
Blondes are definately more fun and yes.... they get my attention before the brunett and way before the red head. But to each his own I suppose.
2007-02-17 09:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 39-yr-old blonde woman who went through a stage of that same questioning when I was in my 20's. Even with a masters of science degree. First, be proud of who you are. If you know you are intelligent then who cares what any prejudiced person may think - anyone that has a preconceived notion about someone based on their hair color, skin color or whatever is a pig and not worth worrying about. They have a problem, not you. Don't try to act differently or color your hair - be who you are and be confident and proud.
2007-02-17 09:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that popped into my head was "ditzy" and I am sorry. I dated one blonde in my life and I have wonderful memories of her. She was sweet, classy, and very sexy. The true California surfer girl. Don't change! Who is going to say that you are not smart, classy and drop-dead gorgeous?
2007-02-17 10:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what others have written in this website, the main straightforward i've got seen is widely used answer #a million- "they are going to hell". i myself have not have been given any preconceived notions. Atheists deserve the main appropriate to have self assurance or disbelieve what ever they prefer in that regard. as long as persons are not militant approximately it, they deserve their due admire. only like people who have self assurance in a undeniable faith. do no longer attempt to transform me, and we will get alongside only positive.
2016-11-23 15:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I don't. If the person in question acts "ditzy" then I will lower my value of them but I will not pre-determine somebody because of hair colour.
2007-02-17 09:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known a number of natural blondes who wear intelligent and sexy at the same time. This silly notion that all blondes are dumb, is just that, dumb!
2007-02-17 09:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.... its something we learn to do in society. Heck I play off it so people leave me alone.... Play dumb and no one bothers you !!! Dee Dee Deeeeee
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh life is grand !!!
2007-02-17 10:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not even for a second. Only idiots believe that crap
2007-02-17 09:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I usually think they're hot!
2007-02-17 09:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋