or is this just called life? I came to the realization that I have some deep rooted trust issues with people in general. When someone hurts me, I'm angry but I don't get bitter or plot multiple ways of revenge. Instead I slowly close myself off from the world and shield my heart so that I want feel that pain again.
That being said and maybe I jump to a far ahead of things but what do you do when you have severe financial issues abd health problems but you find out that someone is interested in you? Do you put that aspect of your life on hold until you get yourself "together" or do you continuing with getting to know the person, BTW - Do you really ever truly get yourself together or do you just come to terms with you life and accept the things that you can or can't - is that the definition for getting yourself together - just accepting your life for what it is and not expecting nothing more or nothing less.
2007-02-17 09:30:05 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would get to know the person better-who knows, that person may not actually be boyfriend potential, but could become a great friend. And even if you do get your financial and health issues straightened out, is your life going to be perfect? Nope. No matter what you do, there is always going to be a sector in your life that needs improvement. So just enjoy the bourgeoning friendship and see where it leads.
2007-02-17 10:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by True Hija De Oshun! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would still get to know this person. Who knows, they might be able to help you get things together. Just be straight forward with them about your problems and don't hide anything.
2007-02-17 09:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋