Im going to a party tonight. The girl hosting the party doesn't want me there, and chances are, her parents font want me there either because her parents hate who she hate. Im only going to see the other people. any tips on how to feel less awkward?
2007-02-17 08:59:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was invited by the way.....
2007-02-17 10:22:51 · update #1
I think you should go just to piss her and her parents off--it would be payback for you and a thumb in their eyes (and/or the middle finger) for being stupid enough to extend the invitation to you in the first place. This, by the way, also makes them fools who get and deserve the pleasure of your presence.
In the meantime, go, say hello to your hosts, and then "get lost" in the crowd you really want to spend time with.
An alternative, and definitely less satisfying all around is to: Stand on the sidewalk and hang out with your friends on their way in. Create your own private party. Bring snacks to share if you like...but go.
2007-02-17 10:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go to a party where the hostess does not want you there?!? That would make you look like you were desperate for friends. I would'nt go if my life depended on it! Throw your own party and invite the people you want to see but don't crash hers.
2007-02-17 09:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go to the party, you don't need to go to the party of someone that doesn't like you for you, have your own party another night and spend this doing something else.
2007-02-17 09:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I don't think you should go. If she is going to be a stuck up brat and hate you then you probably shouldn't go. And it's pretty sad if her parents will diss you when they don't even know you. So I wouldn't go because you don't want to be around those kind of influences because you will end up screwed in the long run.
2007-02-17 09:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, you really shouldn't go. don't belittle yourself just to see other people. your just going to make yourself look bad, like just because the girl hates you, you are still going for like 3 or so hours of fun. Have some pride, girl!
You can always see other people. don't make it seem to the girl that you are desperate to go to her party. if you think that your not going to have a good time, why bother on even going??
2007-02-17 09:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend u don't no she doesn't want u there. better yet believe that you do belong there. don't ignore her or avoid her bcause that would be just plain rude. be kind and curtious and smile a lot. if she keeps the evil eye on u for too long maybe u should give it up and ask people if they'll meet u at a restaurant or something later.
2007-02-17 09:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her party and if she doesn't want you there, it sounds like you aren't invited then! You want to crash a party then you deal with the consequences.....if you feel awkward ...well you should.
2007-02-17 09:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some pride in herself. Obviously you weren't invited. Get yourself some new friends. Good luck.
2007-02-17 09:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good time so her you don't need her permission to have fun so her up go to the party!!
2007-02-17 09:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the hostess doesn't want you at the party, don't go to the party.
2007-02-17 09:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by FCabanski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋