why does women get upset when their husband don't plan to make it to the birth of their son or daughter? I know the husband was the one who created the baby but still, she can go through the baby birth by herself. I did to my wife but she really got upset. I was there for her for 8 months, and I went to vacation on the 9th month so I made myself cannot be there. Why is that wrong?
2007-02-17 08:56:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
When you are pregnant you go through many mood swings. you are extremely emotional. and do not feel great. you have a huge stomach and it hurts your back. it is as much of the guys baby as the girls. you made the baby together you should enter it into the world togethor.
2007-02-17 09:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by kaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really that clueless that you would think that your wife whom your supposed to love and who is bringing your baby into this world would want to do it alone without you of course she wanted you and and rightfully expected you to be there it would have been one thing if you had been at work and rushed to the hospital when she was going into labor just to find that she had already had the baby but you planed on not being there and purpasly went on vacation, I hope if she did not leave you that she at least is making you pay for that poor decision you made. But if it was me I would just leave cause doing something like that shows that your wife and newborn child mean nothing to you.
2007-02-17 09:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be there for the fun part. You need to be there for the *NOT* fun part!! If I was your wife, I would express a bunch of milk and go on my own vacation, leaving you to care for the newborn. You're a real cretin. If you did that to me, I would torture you for years. You would never live it down. What kind of an idiot are you? Don't you have any idea how terrifying it is to go into the hospital, not knowing what is going to become of you, with your spouse off boozing it up and laying on the beach somewhere, when he may be needed to sign for medical treatment if something happens out of the ordinary??
I take it back. She shouldn't torture you. She should divorce your butt and grant you custody of the baby, so you never get a vacation ever again!
2007-02-17 09:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by wo_manifest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is where men act like total idiots lol you never seem to understand just how a woman feels!! and you also dont seem to understand how much pain your wife was going through when she gave birth to your child! It is very disrespectful not to be there when a women has their baby because they need emotional support, especially because women get so sensitive after having a baby! Id be heart broken if my husband never turned up!! Just promise your wife youll never do it again in the futre! im sure shell 4give u!!
2007-02-17 09:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by emily19xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving birth to a child is a very painful and very emotional thing. it is also a miracle. watching a baby being born is amazing and exspecially when its the birth of ur own child. u need to understand that she couldhave died or the baby could have died even with todays technology and u wouldn't be there to go thro it. yes it is uncommon but still. she should b mad cuz giving birth is a big thing
2007-02-17 09:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is the closest experience to death that a woman can undergo. And, all babies don't make it. It's not an experience she should have to face along. If love, feelings, caring and emotions scare you, then by all means, go fishing.
2007-02-17 10:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an evil and hateful being!!!!! How dare you abandon your wife and child....if I were her I would leave you and get as much child support as I could....and if you didn't have anything or much to give.....i would find a good man to marry and then sue you to take your name off of MY child.
2007-02-17 09:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you boy,that was not nice you should be very sorry to her ,this happen to me and it was very upsetting it's even worst if your there by yourself you really need as much support you can get when your in labor you know,you need to be smacked, no more sex for you how about that.
2007-02-17 15:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to see you push something about 8 lbs out of your urethra and see if you want your wife there!
2007-02-17 09:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Morbid Angel21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you were signed up to be in one of those total immersion english courses i think she has no right to be mad at you.
2007-02-17 08:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋