why does women get upset when their husband don't plan to make it to the birth of their son or daughter? I know the husband was the one who created the baby but still, she can go through the baby birth by herself. I did to my wife but she really got upset. I was there for her for 8 months, and I went to vacation on the 9th month so I made myself cannot be there. Why is that wrong?
2007-02-17 08:56:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Because she needs you at that time more than ever. I would be extremely mad at my husband if he even thought of doing that. That is not right. Wow , too bad you cant be the one feeling the pain of giving birth.
2007-02-17 09:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The birth of a child into your family should be the most amazing thing to ever happen to you as a couple. My husband could only be around for 5 months of my pregnancy. I went to get him for the weekend 4 states away just so he could watch his daugter be born. I had to drive through Charlotte, Nc traffic and go through signing him out at Fort Jackson army base and then turn around and head back with him thru Charlotte to have her, because he wasn't allowed to drive due to his training. Having a baby is a very important thing to a couple, because they become a family. If you can't be responisible now how can you be responsible in the future? I really hope you didn't break your wife's heart. She really is a strong woman to go through labor alone.
2007-02-17 09:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by carmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never understood this myth, or where on earth it originated from either. I have no clue what "emotionally cheating" is supposed to mean!! It sounds like a nonsense to me. My husband is most welcome to have friends, and I don't think it would be much of a friendship if there wasn't an emotional connection there! I simply don't regard that as cheating. I'd be extraordinarily upset if he physically cheated though. That's the only kind of cheating I really believe in. I'd leave him over that.
2016-05-23 23:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just falls in the saying "witness the miracle of birth." She got upset because she wants you to be there for her because well birth is not a fun thing to go through and she doesnt want to have to tell you about it...she'd rather you be there. Also a sentimental thing. One thing forsure is that you want to be there because right after the baby comes out they want a name and well her being vulverable the baby could be stuck with an aweful name..a name you would hate to call your child. She would be mad at you going on vacation because she prob would have wanted to go too but being that far along they wont let her on the plane!
2007-02-17 09:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should want to be there for the birth of your child. It is a very tough thing for a woman to go through alone. Shame on you for planning a vacation purposely to not be there. that is very ignorant and i don't blame your wife at all for being upset with you. you are a very selfish person
2007-02-21 09:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u just showed her that u care more for ur holidays than u do about her health and ur baby's health cause what if something went wrong at the birth even tho the doctors says it would be all fine before that's why shes upset because u wernt/are not going 2 be there 2 support her when its Ur job 2 and when she need it
2007-02-17 09:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you saying "I know the husband was the one who created the baby" is absolutly insulting...Women play a large role in getting pregnant too, otherwise men would not need a woman to get pregnant..
And you must be kidding...if your support during her labor or lack of is any indication of how you will father the child I will have to pray for your wife...
You're an a.s.s.
2007-02-17 09:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Christine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a woman is having a baby,she is very close to death,there are alto many emotions that go through a womans mind before and while she is giving birth.She needed you for support not only 8 months but for the delivery and for the rest of your childs life.So you ask why thats wrong I think Ive answered your question...
2007-02-17 09:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Scott B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Giving birth is the hardest thing a woman will ever do---and she needs her man there to make it easier for her!
You are a real SH!T for doing that to her, and I hope she kicks your selfish azz out!
A good husband WANTS to be there, to greet their beloved child as it enters the world...you apparently don't love either of them.
2007-02-17 09:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong because no matter how perfect everything went during the eighth months, your wife could have had serious complications and so could the baby..you sound heartless
2007-02-17 09:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋