i was wit my ex 2 months ago i went out drinkin wit him and i ended up sleepin wit him now im 2 months preg i only found out the other day i didnt even know wat should i do
2007-02-17 08:31:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell him the truth, he has a right to know. NEXT TIME USE CONDOMS
2007-02-17 08:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to the stupid comments just If you know that you havent been with nobody else and you are sure of this and you know for a fact that it isn't nobody Else's then all that you can do is tell him and let him know that you just want him to be a good dad you are not going to make him be with you unless that is what you both want. but you hope that he chooses to be a man and be there for his child and if he tells you that he is unsure that baby is his the tell him after the birth you will get a paternity test done but you hope that him having his doubts isn't going to make him miss out on all the little things that are going to happen while you pregnant because you don't want him to regret it in the end when he see that the baby is his and trust me this should work so just let him know now that all you two can do is wait.
2007-02-17 09:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by LoVn2bAmOmMy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im pregnant by me ex too.. You should tell him you dont ever know how he would react... And for Miss thing that was judging you dont worry there are always going ot be haters... well I told my ex and he was even happier then I was... But he is still my ex and things are not going good at all... Try talking to him about it and if he wants to be a part of the babies life let him... And dont let him talk you into having an abortion if you dont want to...
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2007-02-17 08:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know it is his, tell him. Actually, even if you only THINK that it is, tell him and just say you aren't sure, but you think it probably is his baby. He needs to know, you have to keep him informed. If he is the father he has to pay you child support ... if he doesn't believe you than when the baby is born have a paternity test done to see. it might be scary to tell him, but he deserves to know (this is all if you want to keep the baby .. if you don't you should still tell him ...)
2007-02-17 08:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is tell him before its to late. i didnt get to tell my ex his new girlfriend did and now he doesnt want anything to do with the baby he denies that the baby is his. she told him when i was 22 wks i was trying to avoid telling him because i was scared that he would be like that. i should have told him earlier in my pregnancy i am now 39 wks and confident about raising our child by myself i dont need his help if he wants to say its his then i will let him see the baby but for now i could careless for that guy.
2007-02-17 08:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him and deal with his response AFTER he gives it to you. Don't anticipate the worse. If you are positive he is the father, then he has a right to know. If you are unsure, then you should tell him you are pregnant and that there is a possibility that the baby is his. Never LIE. And NEVER listen to idiots like Lisa A. Keep your baby.
2007-02-17 08:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by blah1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and if you are 100% sure that he is the father then tell him you have no problem getting a paternity test done, congrats on the new addition.Best of Luck to you!!
2007-02-17 09:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. Is there a possibility that it may not be his? (not doubting you) If there is then let him know up front, if not don't be scared to tell him, You have a precious baby growing, and all you need is yourself. Try not to stress out about it. I hope everything works out in your favor sweetie.
2007-02-17 08:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly not ready to have a child. (Sleeping around with exes, going out drinking, etc) You need to have an abortion. Then you need to start being more responsible.
2007-02-17 08:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He has a right to know, and your baby has a right to know his/her father. If he doesn't believe the baby is his, get a DNA test.
2007-02-17 08:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him he has the right to know if he doesnt believe you tell him you will give him a pternity test because you are that sure that he is the father
2007-02-17 08:36:57 · answer #11 · answered by Alisshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋