At the beggining of the year she was new and I was the only one who talked to her and we became friends. Then she made friends with this girl, I was okay with it, because everyone can have more than one friend. But then she started ignoring me at school, and now she only talks to me when we're alone. I e-mailed her and tried to talk about it but she started blaimng the whole thing on me! I don't know what to do, and if you think there is a way to save it let me know.
2007-02-17 08:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by peace ♥ music 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's not your friend, I'm afraid. I used to have a friend that was the exact same way.
She was my friend...until she got around the popular crowd. She would ignore me & be rude to me like I was below her when she was around them.
I used to think it was because her friends didn't like me, which they didn't, but it was because she was embarrassed of me. No friend would be embarrassed to have you around & if they are, they're not your friend.
She may not be embarrassed of you at all & that isn't the case. Maybe her other friends don't like you, so she doesn't talk to you a lot now. I think you need to try to talk to her again, but only give her one last chance to explain why she's doing this.
On the e-mail, just say something like: How come you ignore me sometimes? I want this friendship to work out, 'cause it was great, but I just feel like we don't hang out a lot anymore.
I'm not blaming you for anything. I really do want this to work out between us.
Good luck!
2007-02-17 08:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i had a serious fight with my friend too lately. And my other friend made up stuff just to make me mad, but luckily one didn't. My friend who didn't told me to ignore them and let time heal it. It worked. What I also did, was I ignored her as much as possible. That helped cool it down some more. This whole fight lasted for 2 whole weeks. Eventually I learned that some girls are jerks and I have to accept that. I told her to leave me alone and if you were my real friend then you wouldn't by doing this to me. ( the fight was over a guy) Then she saw that she really hurt me and she was sorry. Now we're back to being friends and that happened 2 weeks ago. I hope this help. All of us go through this. Unfortunely, u are going through it right now. BYE!!!
2007-02-17 17:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think I'd pass on trying to save the friendship or she would be trying to save it too. Find another friend. This happened to me when I was a young person and I've never forgotten it. It really hurt my feelings. But I learned that what you put out there is what you get back. If you want a good friend, you have to be a good friend. Basically, in this case, I think your "friend" kinda dumped you for the other "friend". So....go find some other people to hang out with and be kind to yourself while you're at it. Godloveya.
2007-02-17 16:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her how you feel. Force her to listen, weather its in front of that girl or not. If she still ignores you, she was not a good friend in the first place. Write her a letter and send it to her. Let her know that your not going to put up with her no more. That's the only thing you can do.
2007-02-17 16:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by I luv me some chris breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that u are good friends and she blamed it all on u then give both youselves another chance ...u know blaming it on u means that she thinks u did something that she didnt like ...so why dont you two talk about these things and try to fix them......if you are good friends it will be clear to you that it was just stupidness and you 'll be back together ...what baout her new friend ...why dont you try to be a part of a group like the tree of you together ..i mean if the whole thing worked try to make new friends too you know what i mean
and let me tell u something ....we all make new friends and w lose friends so dont you ever worry about that ...its alright...:)
good luck
2007-02-17 16:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this same problem. its better if you talk to her face-to-face and tell her that you don't appreciate how she treats you when you and her are around that other girl. i mean you probably have better friends and if she continues to act the way she does just hang with your other friends and not worry about her. she may be your friend but friends don't treat friends this way
2007-02-17 16:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's acting really awful towards you. you shouldn't be friends with a person like that. let her blame you, them go your seperate ways
2007-02-17 16:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she not your friend, honestly. Move on.
2007-02-17 16:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mee Mee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun't sound like she much of a friend maybe you should move on and see what happens
2007-02-17 16:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all, in the mean time have a laugh!
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2007-02-17 16:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋