hi, i have a friend who has been very mean to me lately like she blames me for everything she does wrong, she is nice with the other girls in the group exept me!! she says that she is very worried because i dont laugh as often as i did with her, and yesterday me and my friends went to a party, my friend and another friend were dancing in a circle with some other friends, i got in the circle and was dancing next to my friend when she was dancing she kept pushing me and i was like can u please move over?!! but she didnt listen beacause the music was loud and then i pushed her a little and she was like whats wrong with u?? sooo mean and then after the party i told her i was telling her to move over and because she didnt listen i pushed her a little so she would move over and she said she was scared when i pushed her. like if it was my fault, what should i tell her to not me mean to me??
2007-02-17 07:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by *ippy* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
did you say anything to her that was a little too honest lately? if not, maybe she's just angry at someone else and taking it out on you. ignore her when she's like what you described, or you can ask her why she's being so mean. good luck, you sound like a really cool person too.
2007-02-17 07:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I think both of you have some issues in this friendship. When she doesn't do what you want or doesn't listen to you, you tend to want to push her.
Putting your hands on her is a definite no. The reason she asked you what was wrong with you was because she didn't understand why you were putting your hands on her.
No matter what she does or what the situation is, you keep your hands to yourself. Shoving her makes you just as bad.
Not to mention, that when you shove her, you might shove her too hard & she might fall down or fall on someone else, hit someone...etc. Just be calm is situations like that.
Also, SHE shouldn't push you either. If the two of you would learn to keep your hands to yourself, the friendship might actually work out.
I think you just need to tell her you're sorry for pushing her. If she apologizes, too, then you know she's a good friend.
If not, then you know she's never going to be willing to admit she was wrong & that's no friend. Believe me.
Just have a long conversation with her & maybe the two of you can work on this, but NO shoving! *lol*
Good luck!
2007-02-17 08:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that the both of yu have issues. What you can do is work it out. She's emotional because she states that she was worried about you and she was scared. If you break off this friendship, she will suffer. Tell her you are sorry because you were wrong to push her, even if she did hear. She wasn't mean, you were just in a bad mood not to realize it. Work it out. Good luck.
2007-02-17 08:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit in front of the mirror looking into it directly for 5minutes. (use a timer - it will seem like a long time) While you are doing this think about yourself and what you want (in general) for yourself in life. Stop associating with this friend and start making some changes in your life. Spend time with people that will support you and help you learn how to be strong on your own. You can not make quality friendships until you are a strong and happy person all by yourself. PEACE!
2007-02-17 07:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by mattdpickett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like she's your friend. talk to your other friends to find out what is going on with her. there could be a problem that is fixable. good luck.
2007-02-17 07:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok if she is doing so then just dnt worry about her she is not meant for your true friendship but before kicking her off just ask her what is her problem.
2007-02-17 07:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by dipti j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend and keep your hands to yourself.
2007-02-17 07:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your friend?
2007-02-17 07:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋