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Especially lately I have had a number of things going wrong. I havent been able to see my fiancee for 8 months. We've been kept apart by various people. My loan has been rejected and am in deep trouble. I have hardly any money to get me through because Ive been scammed (nigerian scam) and my best mate has betrayed me badly.

2007-02-17 07:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

15 answers

i dont know how you can change it... i know exactly what you mean, i am in the same boat as you. i desperately need a loan but its always rejected. no matter how early i try to leave to fetch my daughter from daycare, the trains always have a problem. i plan a nice evening with my husband or friends, but it never turns out the way i want, always dissappointed. it goes on and on and on. the sad thing is, is that it is happening at work too. i try to be positive, but i know its in vain. I cant give you any advice, but i do hope that life gives you a break. We need it once in awhile... We need to rely on our Creator to lead us in the right direction and not give up hope.
Good Luck and best wishes

2007-02-18 00:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by =) 2 · 0 0

Well Sally the best thing I can say is that we should all perhaps take more of a personal responsibility for our actions.

Before committing to any act, course of actions or plan we must really consider the wisdom of this and the liklehood of the risks causing a catstrophe far higher than the gain would have been.

In general as in life age and personal experiences take a part in that judgement.

One thing however don't let past experiences necessarily affect your future decision making too much. What is past is passed.

Try to look on a balanced outlook. And seek those future wisdoms...

2007-02-17 08:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by rumpfelt_propaganda 2 · 0 0

I would say Karma but i'v had my fair share of misfortunes aswell and I don't think that i'v done anything bad for it to come back and hit me in the face. I do believe though that it's the way in which one deals with bad experiences that matters. You need to be positive and to get up and fight it. You will overcome it with positivity and determination. And no matter what sadness you feel on the inside. try to smile and laugh it away. It really does work. It will cheer you up and everyone around you.
You can convince yourself of anything, you know. If you convince yourself that life is all doom and gloom and totally against you well chances are, it is. If you get up and go and smile and love...... you will be rewarded and pleasantly surprised.
Hold your head up hun, it will get better, its up to you to do it. I'm in almost the same position as you now and I have found through experience that, crying till i'm red in the face and moaning to everyone only makes things worse.
You will look back one day and laugh. This will make you stronger. Ring your boyfriend up, tell him how much you love him and how you can't wait to see him. Be there for each other and nothing can get in the way.
Take Care : )

2007-02-18 06:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Negative thinking is the top reason. Think that today will be different and it will. When some one asks how is your day tell them it is great to be alive and thank (deity of choice) it will only get better. Invest some positive energy toward some one who needs it more than you. The smallest kind act will do at first. Try it and you will see what a difference the good deeds for others will make. It will come back to you tenfold.

2007-02-17 10:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ana C 3 · 0 0

Sally, sh*t happens. We can protect ourselves to some extent but sometimes the world just falls apart. There is no "reason" for this, as there is no one controlling how peoples lives will go. I bet you won't get scammed again, that is called experience, and sometimes experience comes at a very high price. Pick your friends carefully, hope you can turn things around soon, good luck.

2007-02-18 10:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by funnelweb 5 · 0 0

Do you know, not being philosophical about your problem, in life sh** happens, not just to you but to all of us. It's how we deal with that sh** that matters. Some people believe in Karma, for every action there is a reaction. You could react by trying to change the things you don't like, accept the things you can't change and enjoy the things which make you happy. I always try and think well tomorrow will be better than today.

2007-02-18 05:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0 0

Poor judgement when you're in crossroads.
Important people(family e.g.) turn their back on you when you ask for help
Poor ability to take control over a circumstance.

Don't worry, everything is going to be alright. Deal with them(wrongs) one at a time. Your priority for now is to survive. Keep loving yourself, mind you it is the best booster in times like these.

2007-02-17 07:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by oscar c 5 · 0 0

Bad Karma..there are bad influences around you.
Turn the other cheek,do something good ..it will come back to you 10 fold.
Give something to Goodwill,or cook a dinner for someone who is sick or housebound such as an elderly person.

2007-02-17 07:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0 0

Because you might not accept things as they are. Try to be optimistic, try to do the best YOU can not someone else. Smile, say good morning to someone you don't even know. See the smile on their face, it'll make them happy and guess what. It will make you happy. You alone can make your own day. Go for it.

2007-02-17 07:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by William E 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry to say but you are the person that makes your life wrong. If I was you I will go and find what I want. I have gone what you are going Thur but if you want something you need to find it. You can send me a e-mail at "peth1s@yahoo.com". I hope you find what you want.

2007-02-17 07:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kassy 1 · 0 0

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