I recently fallen in love with a girl at my school, my age, and I was just wondering (reason because I don't have much experience) if I want her to know that I like her, should I just tell her honestly instead of beating around the bush, to just spill it out ? And when I'm in a position with a girl that it's seems that both of us like each other and I want to kiss her, should I just do it and not wonder if it's ok ? repeat: Very little experience !!! If anyone makes fun of me I understand seeing how this question may have already be asked a couple of times here !
2007-02-17 07:41:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first just tell her, no point in wating time, lots of things can happen in the time it takes yew to beat around the bush, second dont ask for a kiss...take one=]
2007-02-17 07:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well really it depends on if your comfortable telling her that you like her. If you are, are you comfortable just coming out with it, or dropping hints? If you straight up tell her, do it with confidence! Invite her somewhere. Thats a good way to get your best foot foward. And if not, and you want to go the beat around the bush method, just don't send mixed signals. You dont want any confusion.
Now for the kissing. You can ask her if its ok. Some girls thinks it cute when a guy does that. Or you could just kiss her, but try to time it right. If she's close and lookin straight up at you, and she lingers there, then typically its ok. If you kinda just lean in for one and she turns her head that can me multiple things. 1) she doesnt want to be kissed 2) she wants to be kissed but she's just as nervouse as you are or 3) she's just a very shy kisser and it takes her a little more time to finally be able to kiss you back. that one is more common than you would think. well good luck man.
2007-02-17 15:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right, here is my advice to you, I being an older woman and remembering my first kiss. Just take it slow do not rush it, find out first what you both have in common become friends first and see if you both get along. When the time is, right and you find you alone with her and close ask her in a whisper if you may kiss her, and if she answers yes, then kiss her softly and slowly, and for a long, long time that should have her floating on a cloud all day.
2007-02-17 15:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gurl and i think you should tell her because what if you don't tell her she will never know how you feel and also what if she likes you back you never know and i think you should go up to her one day and tell her or write her note if you are to shy to tell her face to face and if you are both in the moment you should just lean closer and closer to her in till you both kiss and if she is digging you she will kiss you back and some might come out of it i say go for it the next time you see her go ahead and ask her out what could happen she might say she likes you back and you both could start dating and fall in love good luck.
2007-02-17 15:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by little-cutiepie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out...honesty is the key to a good relationship. If she realizes that you don't have a self-concious problem about who you like it might score you some brownie points. As for the kissing part, I wouldn't go out on a tanjem just for a kiss, don't push things. If you start dating ask her if it would be OK to kiss but if you come right out and do that, it could ruin all your chances with the girl.
GOOD LUCK!!
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2007-02-17 15:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has gone threw the same thing at some point another not knowing if they like you or not and what to do about it. i think you should be honest but dont like blirt it out might scared her just talk with her and kind of flirt abit see how she response complament her and if she twirls her hair laughs or kind of looks away all good signs that she's interested. Now about kissing if you like her and she likes you my best advice would be is to lean in slowly but just about near half way that way if she wants to kiss your back she'll lean in as well always work for me and if your still not sure and really really want to just ask may i kiss you kind of foward but hey nothing ventured nothing gained
2007-02-17 15:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to her she might like you too. If she doesn't like you then try to find someone else that you share the same personalities with. IF she likes you then take things slowly. Girls don't like guys who take things too fast. If you go too fast you might end up on the streets. About the kissing thing just don't do it yet make sure you really like her and you'll eventually get more experience... From someone with experience so take my advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 15:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Klw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience girls are not interested if they know you like them. When I came to uni I met a girl who i liked but I tried to ignore it. Eventually she told me she liked me and I told her I felt the same. Shortly after she lost interest (giving no reason).
Anyway, I played hard to get and pretended to lose interest and suddenly she wanted me again.
I had a similar experience at school. Just get to know her but don't let her know how you feel. Eventually she will figure it out on her own and thats the best thing to do.
2007-02-17 15:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something nice for her, ask her out for something fun that wouldn't put to much pressure on either of you - then tell her or just wait for the perfect moment (you will feel it) and give her a sweat kiss.
2007-02-17 17:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, don't tell her straight to her face at first that you like her. We girls get offended when guys do that. Just say: "Hey do you wanna go out to dinner with me on Friday?'' Or something along the lines of that. Don't ask her to a movie though. Then, at dinner tell her a compliment. Like tell her her eyes are really pretty. When you get out to your car to drive her home, (or walk her home. Never, ever make her drive or walk herself home) sit in the car for a minute and then tell her you like her. If she reacts badly don't push it. Just take her home and leave it at that. If she reacts in a good way lean over and kiss her lightly on the mouth. DON't try to make out or anything. Then if she reacts in a good way, you can make out with her. Go on for about an hour. Never stop it short. Make out with her fiercely. VERY fiercely. Then take her home and ask her out again. THEN get married and have babies.
2007-02-17 15:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by Emma P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋