but he just cheated her and he also had another girlfriend and my problem is that now she cant forget him please tell me what to do?
2007-02-17 07:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by dipti j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
remain empathetic and open for her. Listen to her when she needs someone to talk to and show her that there is more to life then a scumbag. but dont get involved with affairs that could raise the heat of this issue.
2007-02-17 07:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this seems to happen all the time doesent it.. Deepti judging by your question i think your really young... At this young age when somebody cheats on you , you can be assured that if u stay with him hez gonna do it again.. Dont worry deepti some day you will meet the one for you, Till then i suggest you get over this looser.. hes not worth it.. Its gonna be hard for the 1st few days when you break up with him just be sure you have no contact with him whatsoever for these few days(6 -7 days) and then i gurantee, that you'll totally forget him..
2007-02-17 07:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by trancellin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a sympathetic ear to talk to. Part of breaking up in "mourning" the relationship. Remind her in a kind way, that she deserves better and that the guy was a loser. She'll accept the break up in time. I
n the mean time, keep her BUSYdoing things to get over him. This might mean getting rid of pictures, playing sad music (ick), getting rid of things that remind her of him. I prefer to get my friends to do things to think outside of themselves...to feel good about who they are. THings like volunteering in the community, working with children, donating time to charitable causes. Or talk your friends into doing fun things with you...like take a dance class, join a volleyball team, go on a road trip. You could even just do a movie night with all your friends once a week to give your friend something to look forward to and to get socializing again. Show her that she's a fabulous person with a lot to give and a lot of people who care about her.
2007-02-17 12:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he doesnt deserve her she can find a nice one in future be there for her talk to her dont let her mull over the things that happened with him tell her to forget him n get on with life she may need some time to forget him u b there with her at every step of her recovery from depression n show her u will b there for her whn she needs u ok
2007-02-21 02:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natuarl when u r attracted towards smthing nd u dont get it u feel pain nd get dishearted.this is a normal reaction.u should take her mind off him and go with her smwhere outside for shopping or do anything through which she thinks of him less.with the passage of time she will surely forget him
2007-02-17 21:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is skipping on selecting better better girls just like a kid.He is not mature for love.Tell her to bless him for a human mentality frm an animal and to go on with her life.There is not a single boy in the world.
2007-02-17 22:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by narmadha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swoop in and flirt with he bf, if she gets mad be like- it's 4 ur own good u c could u imagine if u had 2 deal with some girl doing this with him??
that way she'd be like' oh i can't have some1 doing this 2 me...
this is proven right, just ask peter....
2007-02-17 17:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by bambi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's in denile!
Try talk to her and explain he was an *******!!!!
Then if she has anything belong to him get her to burn it in a big bonfire!!
Also get a cute guy to distract her and see what happens frm thier. Hope I can help!
2007-02-17 07:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by minxy1312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it is your problem .
help her to forget him
2007-02-17 14:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone needs a lil' time to get ova someon!! jusst b there 4 her!!!!!
2007-02-17 07:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jaquah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋