like the biggest prep in the world but im nice to everyone weither there overweight,skinny,ugly.i hate when my friends make people feel bad of course i stick up for the people that are getting made fun of.well im 15 years old and my friend is 14 years old.this is what happened.
my bestfriend and i were at the mall and these four ''emo kids'' were infront of hollister my bestfriend goes up to them and tells them ''move you freaks,did you play the violin lately? you people should all die your scary and ugly'' when she went in the store i starred talking to them and they were the nicest people in the world. i have tons of ''emo'' friends.then these ''overweight girls'' walked by and she yelled to them ''fat *** your discusting lose some weight you pigs'' and one of the girls cried,i glared at her and she got mad AT ME! what can i do about her?
my boyfriend is 230 pounds and 5'7'' she said i should break up with him because hes ''overweight'' im 5'5'' and 113lbs.i hate how mean she is!
2007-02-17 07:12:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need some new friends.
It sounds to me like your friends are not comfortable
in their own skin, so they lash out at others.
One day they "may " grow out of this. But until then
stay the sweet girl that you are and don't let them drag you into their world. Hanging around them will make everyone else think that you are just like them.
2007-02-17 07:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend have turrets? And if so she needs to be institutionalised. What is an "emo"? I would just not hang out with her if I were you...she obviously has issues with her own self confidence and can't help but to take it out on others.
And you...I think it's awesome that at 15 you are grounded enough to not only recognise her crappy and immature behaviour, but to defend the people she picks on. Keep it up! You have strong character and that is a wonderful mature quality!!!! Good luck to you!
2007-02-17 07:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a ***** she needs to get over herself.
everyone sees her as a BAD person that NO one wants to be around.
my suggestion is to NOT be friends with a bad person. you are a kind and good person that deserves a wonderful friend that appreciates people and life.
your 'bestfriend' doesn't appreciate things and takes things for granted.
its ok karma will catch up with her later.
so i'd say stop talking to and being her 'best' friend and see if she still does that stuff. she won't have any friends and will learn her lesson. take her back AFTER that IF she is better.
2007-02-17 07:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit her down and let her know that what she is doing is not something that you approve of. If she does not change then find yourself another bestfriend. She sounds like she needs to just grow up.
2007-02-17 07:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very rude and makes fun of other ppl b/c she is insecure with herself. Dont hang out with a loser like her b/c her actions reflect on you.lol
2007-02-17 07:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yew shouldnt be her friend, because first of all yew could get a better and lots more friends because of how nice eyw are, yew shouldnt worry about her, yew need to sit her down and talk to her, if she doesnt listen then tell her yer friendship is over yew could have any friednds yew wwant because of nice eyw are, good job and good luck.
2007-02-17 07:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this girl your friend? She sounds insane. Do you really need people like this in your life? Dump her.
2007-02-17 07:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
four words.
Don't Talk to Her
EVER
2007-02-17 07:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her like a bad habit.
2007-02-17 07:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My...
Give her AIDS or some backwards bypass surgery.
Oooh...
Shave her!!!
2007-02-17 07:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by The Answering Peanut Butter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋