I am 49 years old,Not happily married for the second time,Sad because of the way things turned out.Is there anything anyone could suggest that might give me hope?I am afraid to divorce again because I have no where to go.I think I would if I knew there was something better for me.
2007-02-17 06:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to find yourself and stop looking for mr.right to make it better for you. If this is your second marriage, you might have rushed into it, how long did you date this person? Seems to me to best thing to do is get divorced, get counceling and fullfill yourself first before you tie the knot again. Good luck
2007-02-17 07:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking of marriage as a trap. What are you missing out on? Dating is full of flakes and weirdos mostly, so do you think that's going to make you happy?
Heck, I am sinlgle, and I have been happy this week because I HAVEN'T gone out on a date this week. Single, married, whatever... take control of your life and do some things for yourself. Any little, tiny bit of self-improvement you can do, any little task you complete is a validation of your worth. You might not write the Great American Novel, win the Nobel Prize and cure cancer, have throngs of devoted (and mostly dellusional) followers, but... you can do a lot of things, and you have to start out small and build yourself back up.
2007-02-17 07:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of thinking of a way to get out of the marriage you should be focusing on how to fix it. Marriage takes work and if you are unhappy you need to work harder. I am not sure what the problems you are having are but there is always away if one is willing. Try counseling or take a look in the mirror and see if it is the marriage that is the problem or is it really something within yourself.
2007-02-17 07:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starting over is a scary thing and I'm recently married and things aren't exactly working out... Stay strong and do what is best for you. Think about the years to come....Do you really wan to stay married and misreable? Try counseling- (this is coming from someone who is going through the same thing) I'm just as confussed...
2007-02-17 07:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you able to experience free and lonely mutually? you'll properly experience free and on my own this can be a diverse aspect altogether. you are able to stay a solitary existence and be completely satisfied, yet i'm no longer particular about living a lengthy lonely one and nonetheless being satisfied
2016-12-04 07:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you don't give enough information.........
there are always hope in life, if you are not happy in your situation then leave, do you work? if you do then you can find a place of your own...if not then find a job that would be the start.......It becomes difficult when there are kids involved, in your case I don't know.........
2007-02-17 07:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy then you are unhappy. I suggest trying to find an apartment or low-income apartment, and when you do find one I would file for devorce. You can't deny your heart.
2007-02-17 07:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What drove you to this marriage? What did you like about your spouse. You have to work out the problems; you need to talk to him about your needs and wants.
God bless!
2007-02-17 07:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can suggest, and it works, is to seek God and you shall find Him, He cares......Jesus loves you
2007-02-17 08:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋