I am married to my wife of 12 years but I don't like having sex with her. She stays home and does the frumpy hosewife thing.
Recently I found this young hottie and we do it all the time. The sex is great. I don't feel any regrets. Is this bad?
2007-02-17 06:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never cheated. I just asked this to see if a male asking the same question as a female would get as much negative response.
I am surpirsed i received less negative response than the female that asked this exact same question a few minutes ago.
I expected all the women on there to just berate me and call me names.
Just trying to test out that double standard that women have:
For a female, its OK to cheat because there is something missing in the relationship.
For a male it is not OK and he is a pig if he does so.
2007-02-17 07:22:04 · update #1
Not at all, may I offer a suggestion? Don't tell your wife! And bang her once for Ronnie.
2007-02-17 07:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your behavior is very selfish!!!!! What is wrong with you? You made a commitment to your wife. As soon as your wife that you call frumpy learns about your rudenes; she will not look frumpy anymore. She will be hotter than your young homewrecker hottie and will get her own hottie that will be 100 times better than you. Then you will live the rest of your life with regret.
2007-02-17 07:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are for real, then of course you know you are wrong. Regrets? Well, maybe nothing has happened as of yet to make you feel that way, but it is coming, mark these words.
Now, your wife may be frumpy, but nothing said she must stay that way. Of course, it is just as likely that this is merely the excuse you use to justify your cheating and wrong doing as well.
You are being immoral and we both know it. Stop it before you find out just how many regrets a man can have over the things he has done and his shortsightedness.
2007-02-17 07:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see....you first need to figure out the reason that you dont like having sex with her. if you find out that you dont love her the way a husband should you both should not be together. and if you goin to continue to sleep with the hottie fine but do the right hting and let your wife go so she can one day be happy with someone else. i have cheated alot before in my last merrage i did not regret it but i no in my heart it is wrong and it made thing rough in the long run!!!
2007-02-17 07:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Andi L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes thats bad . I think you should leave your wife or ask you wife to do the things this little hottie does that turns you on .
2007-02-17 07:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yeah, u need to get out of ur boring marriage or work on it, before she finds out. Its not right to hurt her. And the fact that u dont care tells me u dont love her. Move on and find someone u will stay attracted too before it gets worse.
2007-02-17 07:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will just say, dont do anything that you wouldn't want her to do with another man. If you dont like that then just ask her how she feels about you having sex with your little hottie, get her opinion, not ours, your married to her not us.
2007-02-17 07:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's fun!! Is it bad? Yeah if you get caught, otherewise, make sure you're safe. Don't let your wife find out, it'll hurt her and if you care about her at all you won't let her know.
2007-02-17 07:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel if she did the same thing to you ?
2007-02-17 09:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take your marriage seriously
2007-02-17 07:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by loulou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋