On the day the baby was due, I was on the airplane flying back to the hospital. I had to go to the conference meeting at out of town. The airplane would have gone there a day sooner if it hadn't snowed that day. When she gave birth to the baby, I wasn't there. and now, my wife doesn't forgive me for not being there when she need me the most. I told my wife about the airplane but she is still mad at me. What do i do now? I still love her more than anything. I hope she will forgive me in the future.
2007-02-17 06:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gee I hope she forgives you too, so she had the baby without you, these things happen nothing you could do about it. My husband was gone when I had our daughter too, but I sure didn't get mad at him. It would of been nice for him to be there. He was there in spirit, that is all that counts. So tell your wife she is being very immature about it and to get over it. You are not going to have a happy marriage if she can't understand things happen in life that we have no control over, and weather is definitely one of them. Congrats on your new baby.
2007-02-17 06:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't your fault at all. There was alot of messed up stuff this week because of all the snow. She is just upset that you missed an important milestone in both of your lives. She knows it's not your fault, it's just easier to be mad at you than a snow storm or an airplane. Give her a couple days to cool off, then do something REALLY special for her. I'm sure something she would really love right now is if you spent a day taking care of the new baby and give her a day off. She will be so happy you will be forgiven.
2007-02-17 07:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 12:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, doesn't she realize the pain and anger and sadness that YOU feel for not being able to see the birth of your child? You can't get that back....of course it was painful for her and being in the stage she is in she is extremely emotional.....instead of explaining the plane situation...explain how hurt YOU are for not being able to be there...throw in some tears and tissue and the tables will turn....you'll see......
2007-02-17 06:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous, what were you supposed to do, flap your arms? She's being unreasonable. I can understand that she's disappointed but it was out of your hands. Just show her that you are there for her. I think she'll get over it. If you are loving in other ways she'll see that.
2007-02-17 06:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange. Five months ago you "dated a transvestite" and wanted to know if it hurts to have sex for the first time. Five months later your wife has a baby! Quick work!
P.S. Where is the transvestite?
2007-02-17 07:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't your fault that you were not there we cant help what the weather does. I hope that she will for give you in time.
2007-02-17 06:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋