They like me I think. They're really nice. They say hello to me in the hallway a lot. They usually let me hang out with them at school things. They trust me, actually we were in a group in a class and they said the only people they really trusted were there close friends and me, the acquaintance. Maybe because Im nice and a loner, I dont really hang with a certain group Im alone most of the time. I used to be more normal but now Im really introverted quiet and shy and I think they like me more because Im nicer but also want me to open up a little more. They seem to like it when I Ido anything even a little spontaneous, which is rare, like its funny or whatever, and I usually dont get invited to their parties (just because Im not a close friend and I don't drink) but I got invitied to one the whole class was iinvited to and one of the girls said "we'll have to do something like this again sometime" i think so do you?
2007-02-17 06:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that they probably do. They wouldn't waste their time hanging out with you if they didn't. I used to be in this situation a few years ago, and had the same doubts. All I neede was time, and in the end I opened up, and now they are my best friends. I think you are worrying too much-like I did. Just relax and be yourself around them. I'm sure that when they see a more confident side to you then you will be one of their 'best friends' soon enough!
2007-02-17 06:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be careful because if you don't know them that well they may be just using you I don't know but I have had that happen to me before. As for you being quiet there's no problem there I am quiet unless I'm around my friends If you decide to continue in the group activities don't drink Friends are supposed to keep you on the right track not lead you down the wrong path.
2007-02-17 14:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you were a bit more extroverted, but still stay sweet, you'd get more from them. Sure, they let you hang with them around school, but they don't invite you to their parties. However, if they didn't want you along because you refuse to drink, find a new group. Don't change yourself just so can get invited places. I think it's great that you haven't given in to peer pressure and still kept your status as an "alcohol virgin." Great job! <3
2007-02-17 14:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they sort of just want you as like a person with a part time job somewhere. Like they only want you for a while. Like a part time worker, not hat much of a person with a full time job. Just open up to them a little maybe they do want you in their group permanently.
2007-02-17 14:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry- but find a group of girls who will hang out w/ you anytime, not just occasionally. I'e heard that line beore, and the girls won't do anyhting about it. But if you think I'm wrong, you can try inviting them over, instead of waiting for an invitation.
2007-02-17 14:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋