i'm a huge romantic but it hasn't happened to me yet. i have met 2 people I really like but obviously neither is my soulmate. every time I think this is it, it doesn't work out.
i think there is a point to what i've said. i believe some people are more blessed than others.
2007-02-17 06:08:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It is dependent on your expectations. We are one, everyone is your soul mate.
It is only your judgment that keeps you blind to this truth.
love and blessings Don
2007-02-17 06:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is called getting real. I have a feeling you're quite young (25 or less), but in any case, it has little to do with fate, soulmates, blessings or karma. It has to do mostly with you, but also time and experience. First of all, every time someone doesn't click with you, consider yourself lucky -- it wasn't meant to be. Second, practice being a genuinely caring, giving person. If you're the spiritual type, try reading some of Wayne Dyer's books, particularly Real Magic. He stresses the importance of "serving" in a relationship. If you go into a relationship with NO expectations of getting anything, just giving of yourself and sharing the joy you have inside yourself, you WILL find the right person. You also shouldn't narrow this to just "hot chicks" you want to meet. You should use it with everybody. Siblings, parents, co-workers, classmates, strangers, store clerks, cops...everybody. You should always be consistent. And if you can't do this, it could very well be the reason why you're striking out.
2007-02-17 14:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your perception of blessed. Example: There are ones society would by normal standards consider castaways; pyhsically challenged, mentally incompetent, emotionally unstable, and spiritually unaware. I have learned patience, compassion, and most of all love from the above mentioned. The most important thing I learned was: perhaps they are not here to learn but to teach. If and when you understand this, you will have something to offer the one you call your "soulmate"...
2007-02-17 14:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by yp_vicki_nashville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding the person that is right for you can be a difficult thing, some people look their whole life and don't find the "right" one, some settle, and some people are fortunate to find the one meant for them. Just keep looking, you never know who your soulmate could be, it could even be someone you already know.
2007-02-17 14:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're a bit too romantic. "Romance" has it's place, but can be "overdone". A bit of balance in this area is required, too, for a "sane" life. You might want to observe how you "act" in the face of your experiences. Did you notice glimmerings of dependency, jealousy, fear of loss, attempted control, etc. Major "flaws" that arise in a not too healthy approach to "love". Read *The complete idiot's guide to toltec wisdom* and thereby avoid endless dramas and pain based upon a misunderstanding of "love" and what being human is all about> :-)))
2007-02-17 14:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by drakke1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blessed be the week, for it has only seven days.
2007-02-17 14:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's time. You'll meet the right person.
2007-02-17 14:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋