2007-02-17 06:07:39 · 13 answers · asked by okurbusted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let the fox dig his hole. The one acussing is usually the one doing it. This is very true. Watch him a little closer and you might see what he is doing. Also another thing, DO NOT let him bring your pride and self esteem down. That is mental abuse he is doing to you. Just keep your eyes open and see the fox dig the hole.
2007-02-17 06:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what it is, without knowing, hard to answer. He sounds very insecure. Insecure people have a hard time dealing with things and often never change. I guess you have to ask yourself if this is really where you want to be for the rest of your life, being accused of things that are not true, or living in complete trust with someone else. You have a care taking nature and you are drawn to guys who feel a little needy. Not the best relationship for you. You would be happier with someone who has it together mentally.
2007-02-17 14:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what you are doing to make them feel that way. There is always a reason and if you just open the communication up and talk, not yell... then the reason will come out.
And then fix it! It's really that simple!
If your not an affectionate person, become one. Most of the happiest of marriages are that of those that the spouses show each other affection daily.
2007-02-17 14:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love them then you are going to have to find a way to prove to them that what they are accusing you of is not true.
2007-02-17 14:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isn't true than forget it. if he says again tell him I told you once that it is not true, now unless you have proof than I don't want to hear about it anymore. Just lay it out in the open make him prove what he is saying or tell to shut the hell up.
2007-02-17 14:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Establish a system of trust. Yall in a marriage now, no need of mind games. Commitment and stability.
2007-02-17 14:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pending on what he is accusing you of...is he accusing you of cheating? if so he is the one doing it...my answers will vary pending on whats really being said...good luck to you
2007-02-17 14:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a woman, stand your ground, and make him agree and apologize. If you're a man, give up, and wait until another day to win your next battle.
2007-02-17 14:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband is the guilty one and he blames you for his problems. Most men do this to get out of trouble with their wives. Maybe you should call him out on his own problems?
2007-02-17 14:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by FREDDIE H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deny it. Offer up any evidence you have in support of your denial.
I like the answer above.
2007-02-17 14:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋