why is he lying to me there's this boy through highschool he called me names like f around his friends he use to give me dirty looks,he use to touch me in pravite parts,he would grab my hand and tell to touch him back,and when ever he got around his friends he would say let's leave this f is stairing,so i started treating him that way and he looked sad then he moved and this yr i seen him and he talk to me and said i remember you like nothing happen then he gave me sad exspressions like he wanted to cry then he left the room and i seen him three days later and he was around his friends and he pointed at me and said let's leave this the f is here and so i confronted him and he Said ' nope never said anything dawg!!! i'm not like that if i have a problem i'll let you know first hand......but yea take care man' why is he lying to me please get me to understand and his ex girlfriends give me dirty looks. why is he lying to me like nothing never happen. ps im a guy we already in gradurated
2007-02-17 05:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think he wanted an "in the closet" relationship with you. I think he had feelings for you and you hurt him. Sounds like the 2 of you weren't willing to face up to things.
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2007-02-17 05:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forget about trying to figure this guy out. He sounds a bit tipped to me! He's very insincere and something about you makes him jealous. Anyone who needs to put down another person, feels inferior to that person, so they try anything to make that person feel bad. You must have something he doesn't have, say looks, or money, or a nicer personality, whatever, but it's something he lacks, so he tries to make you feel bad because he's trying to make you less happy than he is. That guy needs to understand himself a bit better. Happy people don't go around hurting and upsetting other people. It is only those, who feel a lack of something inside, that communicate in confusing, conflicting ways with others, because that's the way they themselves feel inside. How we express ourselves to the outside world, reveals how we feel about ourselves inside, and obviously, this guy is not too comfortable in his own skin! So let it go, he's got a lot of personal problems. Move on and find friends who are happier with who they are!
2007-02-17 05:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a stupid, confused idiot that wants to use you to get off when no one is looking, and wants to put you down to make himself appear straight. Avoid this jerk at all costs, stay away from him completely, I don't care what he ways, how "sad" he acts, he is an @$s Hoole. You do not need anyone like this in your life, or anyone like this to screw you up in life.
2007-02-17 05:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this loser thats what is he. He is not worth thinking of, ignore him as much as you can. People like that are ignorant and need help more then you can offer to them. Just stay away from him.
2007-02-17 05:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you know where you stand sexually this guy may not. He may be homophobic against himself.
See the first season of "Queer as Folk" to help you understand this phenom. better.
2007-02-17 05:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in the closet and will attack you to protect himself. Write him off. He's got some issues that aren't your problem right now.
2007-02-17 05:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Paula from Maple Street 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and move on. He sounds like trouble.
2007-02-17 06:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by raymond_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds as though he is trying to figure out who and what he is - and is finding it hard
just be polite to him but dont harbour any hopes about him
2007-02-17 06:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want people he is gay maybe and lies to cover his tracks
2007-02-17 05:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay and he's terrified by it.
Get rid of him...he's big time trouble.
2007-02-17 06:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋