As a married woman, who has an anti-romantic husband. Sometimes you need a little feedback. You can look at my yahoo 360 page as well. I am just curious, and need input. PLEASE no rude comments, just honesty. I really appreciate it. Thank u.
2007-02-17 05:24:15 · 15 answers · asked by Rebecca44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your profile is nice, but if you want to spcie up your life, maybe you are spending too much time online.
I read about how you used to be on MySpace - I did too, I think you and I may have had similar issues because it is no longer "suitable" for my house either. But, that's besides the point.
If you want to make your life a little more spicy, you should spend more time on your life. If you are on the internet looking for friends, maybe you aren't looking around you enough.
What I mean is, spend more time with your friends around you, your family, and even your husband. This online thing is great for when you're bored, but it starts to become a habit and I don't know for sure, but maybe you are living online as a habit instead of your actual life.
At any rate, good luck. Talk with your husband; some men are simply not in tune to those things and that is O.K.!!! As long as he loves you and you love him, sweet nothings and spontaneous roses don't need to be there.
2007-02-17 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to some it all up in one short sentence, your absolutely normal! I know you probably wished for something allot more exciting, but hey! Some of us have to set the foundation for normality! You're interesting though! But, normal. I'm the same way. Well, I'm married to a woman who likes all the same TV shows (I looked at your 360) she's also a Christian, and so am I, but we've been burnt by the church so much we just stopped going. Not that it's a Biblical context thing, we believe just about what all Christians believe (that's an ironic statement) it's just too much backstabbing and cliques. Too much immaturity!
Hate talking about that stuff though. She's not that much of a computer chatter, and I have friends all over the globe. I collect interesting people. In fact IM me, I'm in between a person from Japan and one from Brazil.
2007-02-17 13:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your beautiful and I also think you shouldnt rely on other peoples opinions to make yourself feel good. You need to learn to be ok with yourself otherwise your always gonna feel like crap. Get a hobbie that makes you feel good about yourself and do things to pamper yourself every once in a while. Maybe get some marriage counseling too and find out why your husband isnt being romantic anymore. Seriously though, if you always depend on others to feel good about yourself you never will. Good luck.
2007-02-17 13:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by K.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have taken his anti-romantic behavior into account before you married him. How can you possibly live your whole life without a man telling you that you are beautiful everyday or buying you flowers just because or anything else romantic?
Just half an hour ago, my husband called when I was sleeping, I answered the phone, and he said "You even sound beautiful." There is no way I would ever give up being with such a romantic man. Talk to your husband about how you feel.
2007-02-17 13:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I know you're a Christian, but even Christians have a right to spice things up.
You should surprise your husband by dressing up sexy for him and pampering him with his favorite food. Feed it to him and treat him to a full body message, take your time with it and have fun. Light some candles and play some nice jazz to set the mood if this doesn't work, I don't know what to tell you. It's not your fault........that's all I can say.
2007-02-17 13:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look fine, nice eyes, great smile. Good luck with the "anti-romantic" spouse.
2007-02-17 16:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a nice christain woman who loves her husband im on yahoo 360 too you can look at my blog if you want but i got mine on private so you might not can see it
2007-02-17 14:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebecca,
You say you are a Christian women, why not look to your faith for your inspiration and well being. God made you in his image. That makes you the most beautiful person in the world. You seem like a loving mother and wife I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-02-17 13:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by mjS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You look like a loyal friend and a woman who really loves her family .
2007-02-17 13:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a life outside marriage
is there a church nearby you can volunteer
is there anyplace at all nearby where you can work for free or volunteer
2007-02-17 13:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋