Why is it that girls say like they nice guys when they really dont?

Question

i always see these attractive girls go with guys who r blount, act like there bad ***...the one that acts like they can control other ppl by the way they talk like there all tough...alot of girls seem to be attracted to this..so girls really dont usually like guys who r nice..they dont know what they want! i think they want the guy to be nice to them ina way but to other ppl they like a guy with charisma and who can control other ppl by talking all tough and blount

Answer 1

It's not that simple. We like guys that are nice to us, and nice to people we want them to be nice to. How do you know who these people are? You get good at guessing, because there is no way in the world we could point them all out before you decide how you're going to act towards them.

We like badass guys because they seem more masculine and able to protect us. They also seem to be more willing to stand up for us in ridiculous situations where a less-aggressive guy may just choose to walk away. We like to know that we're worth some trouble.

However, we don't actually like trouble most of the time. Sometimes we'll like it if you say you're going to kick the guy's ***... but sometimes we'll find it offensive and think you're being an ***. And most of the time, if you actually go to kick the guy's ***, we'll be upset afterwards.

As a woman, I admit that we are way too complex, but that's the way it is. You need a balance between being a tough guy and being a nice guy, and you will just have to be lucky on knowing when to be which. I'm sorry, but that's the way it goes.

Answer 2

we do like nice guys but the bad boys are more of a challange especially when your young when you get older lots of things change

Answer 3

we like guys who are jerks.. who breaks our hearts for another girl then we go back to to theme cuz were desperate for love..we love men who are controlling..but dont get me wrong we like nice men too