Social Problem?

Question

Ok i have this problem for about 2 years.am 15 years old now last year i use to go out with my friends and hang out with them not too often but still did.Now this year at fridays and saturdays i just stay home.i dont go out anymore and hang out with my friends i see them at school and talk to them but thats all.This is because i dont feel good with my self because i think am fat.am not the thinnest person in the world but not the fattest one.my butt is a bit bigger than usall and my chest has alot of fat on (Am not a fat person) and i dont feel like going out or going to the shops and buying cloths because i dont like how i lookl in them,and thats the reason i dont go out

any help? please i cant stand to be like this anymore..

Answer 1

dude be happy with yourself then get started trying to loose the weight but if you are not happy with what others might think of you then stop, they are your friends and if they are true friends they wont judge, people that judge usually have something they are trying to cover up themselves. Be yourself laugh, love, and live life. I know you think God advice from an old guy, but in school I was very popular and I had and still have some of the worst zits you have ever seen but what can I do I am clean, but I get zits. I sure aint gonna crawl in acorner and die, this is your life Live man.

Answer 2

You said so yourself, "I'm not a fat person." So what is the problem? You are not fat and that settles it.

The problem is you are comparing yourself to your friends or to someone thinner than you. Why not try comparing yourself to somebody who is bigger than you? Smile.

Go swimming and go to the gym - exercise will make you feel better.

Answer 3

i understand how u feel but u shudn't u no ur gunna have a good time neways just go and have fun if their ur friends the wont' care

i rele understand but u look at lot worse to urself than u do to others i promise just go have fun life's short don't worry bout it rele i promise u'll feel better