Why do you let other women do this to you?

Question

You have a good man. You tell other women you have a good man. They want a good man. They think if they can get your man to sleep with them, you will divorce him and they can move in. I know some of you will say that if he falls for it, he's not a good man. Men have a weakness for sex and a big ego we want stroked. We slip. But why would you lose what was a good thing to a scrupulous, conniving woman?

Sharon, the question is why would you let it happen?

Answer 1

its sad but yeah it happens and i understand how hard it is for guys to be tempted

Answer 2

Sure, men can have a weakness for sex and a big ego, but if they are getting what they need and want at home, they don't have to go anywhere else for it. If they are happy and satisfied, it's much easier for them to say no to other women. A woman has a responsibility to keep her man satisfied & keep things interesting. That man has the same responsibility to keep the woman interested enough to want to keep him satisfied (this is where things often fall apart). A woman needs to replace female friends who would try to take away her man. A woman does not have to keep it a secret that she is happy. If things fall apart, the man is more responsible than the friend and the woman should never, ever make excuses for his bad behavior.

Answer 3

Just because a man cheats dont exactly make him a bad man persay, but if he is with a women and decides to sleep with someone else, that makes him a bad man for her. Most women want her man to come to her for their every need, and if he goes else where to get it, especially with sex, it ruins her self everything because you told her she has a good man, but you slept with someone else. And the bad thing about it is is that most likely she beleived you when you said you was a good man, and then step out on her. So you may very well be a good man, but to another women, not her so much now. And as a women, let me say that there are lots of scandolus women out there that will find a good man just to have security untill the next better man comes along. Then you wasted what could have been a potentonally good relationship for someone who had no intentions of being faithful to you in the first place. Another thing is is that after you sleep with a women, she will always find a way to rub it in your girls face just for the fact that she is trying to break you up. And women do it any way they can. So after you have slept with another women, it is possible that she may not leave you, but whether you know it or not, her life from there on out will not be as great as you think it will be because it will always be in her head unless she decides she can really trust you. So I hope I could help, and good luck.

Answer 4

Uhm, women have a weakness for sex too. Men are scrupulous and conniving too. I don't understand your question. If my lover cheated on me, therapy first and divorce as a last resort.

Answer 5

there is a saying," women don't tell other women how great your man is other women will try to steal him." I know a few of my friends want a hubby as awesome as mine. I know full hearted he would never cheat and if he did he would know to pack his bags and hit the road that same day. I would never try to save a marriage with a cheater "he knows that". nothing wrong with a man wanting a ego stroke he can take a compliment while keeping his junk IN HIS PANTS!. If the qiestion is why would you let it happen? my dear any man who can't control his urges is not worth being with end of strory!

Answer 6

Alot of men think with the wrong head. Its hard to say no when a lady is throwing themselves on you. Me personally would say no if I was in a relationship, it really messes with a womens head when she is told no, I think its funny.

Answer 7

Like HELL if I'd let that happen!
Anyway, MY man is not a weakling who needs his ego stroked by sleeping with sl_uts---he loves me, and that means he would NEVER cheat!

Answer 8

if i love a man i dont sleep with his friends, cousins, co-workers, or any other man for that matter, if a man loves me, i expect the same, even if my supermodel best friend walks into the room naked and drops to her knees in front of him, he better stay zipped up or thats it, he would expect the same from me, and if i faultered i would be a slut so there you go.

Answer 9

Stupid question. It just has to be the woman's fault because the man can't help it....GAG!

Answer 10

women have egos too for one, if you fall for that trick then you're stupid,because what women want is for you to fall for their tricks, everything we do or say is wrong.