What was your most difficult "good-bye" ? What were the circumstances? Did you achieve "good-bye" Regrets?

Answer 1

My most difficult goodbye had to be saying goodbye to my mom. She was diagnosed with cancer in July 2004 and suffered through 3 months of hell. I sat with her most of her stay and when I finally returned to work, I received a call that she would pass within 48 hours. They medicated her into a comotose state and that was very difficult, knowing she could hear me but couldn't respond. She made it right to the 48th hour and wouldn't let go until I said my goodbyes to her and assured her I would be alright. She loved my children with all her heart and they were devistated as was I. I do have regrets but only for the things I lacked giving her through life. I held her close as she passed so I don't regret that.

Answer 2

My boyfriend of 7 years started using drugs again and was an I.V. drug user.(I met him when he was clean and sober for 3 years.)Any way I don't think I could have loved anyone more but he killed anything I felt with his drug use.I lost my home,my car and almost me until I made him leave.It was not a pretty thing and I couldn't handle the drug dealers threatening me for money to pay his debts.It was difficult to say good bye to all those years of happiness and everything material wise because he needed the needle more.I do not regret saying good-bye for my own safety and well being but I do regret that I started a relationship him at all.

Answer 3

My old best friend.Her father was in jail for selling drugs, her mother was shot in the eye, but still lived, with a fake eye.Her grandparents took care of her.They went to court to see who would take custody fo her and her brother.Her mother won, and whisked them away.I never saw her after that.
She called me once and left a message.I didn't pick up at first because I didn't know who it was.And I was too in shock to hear her voice to pick up the phone.
I guess I'm too young to have any worse good-byes, though this one was pretty bad.

Answer 4

I am going through a break up so don't remind me lol