ok me and my friends r in the gifted class at my school and no body in the other classes really like them all that much but they like me (i'm not trying to sound stuck up or rude) but my grade choose me as most popular and most likeable(again not tring to sound rude) and they r really mad at me and i feel like it isnt my fault. i dont know what to do. thanx 4 taking the time to answer my question!!!!!
2007-02-17 03:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by mar.™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all these answers r really great!!!!!! THANX GUYS!!!!! it'll be REALLY hard to pick a best answer!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 04:44:08 · update #1
You should be proud of yourself for your achievements. Don't let anyone keep you from doing your best not even this. Maybe the others in the other classes like you because you don't have your nose in the air like a lot of people do. You may be the kind of person that can geyt along with anyone. Just keep being nice to the ones thats being mean and they'll come around.
2007-02-17 03:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by delorisjp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but jealousy and real friends don't get jealous of other friends they support them in everything and every situation and is real about their feelings if they can't be like that with you then they were never real in the first palce. Remember when one door closes hundreds more will open that is just life for you.....
2007-02-17 11:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by ChocolateDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't disabandon your friends because other friends hate those friends. I have a similar situation: I don't involve myself in any "cliques" or "groups" I'm just sort of friends with whoever is nice and so on. I have to deal with gossping, rumors about all my friends and it gets annoying. I just say, very nicely "i'm friends with that person, she/he's a nice person, and she/he's my friend. You may not like him/her, and that's fine, but I do."
And besides, you don't want to be the mean girl who blows off her friends just to be "cool" and "popular" Don't be that girl. Be the nice girl. If they have a problem with who your friends are, that's their problem. Seriously, what kind of friends get pissed off at who you are hanging out with? That's just crazy.
2007-02-17 11:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Namaste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my thought on things like this, real friends don't get mad about things like that. I have a friend who is liked by everyone and not all of them like me. Don't worry, just because people like you more doesn't mean that you can't still be friends with your friends now!
2007-02-17 11:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are jealous and hurt for they feel you left them to become something.........so what if you have been giving the title of most popuilar, ask your buddies why they feel threatened by your being voted on, and try to see it in their eyes.......if they still are mad at ya, well, its their loss to lose such a special friend, because friends are hard to come by....hope this helps
2007-02-17 11:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing that you can do is to tell them what you just told us in this question because if I was on of your friends reading this, I think that I would forgive you. Good Luck!
2007-02-17 11:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your fault, theyre just bitter, but maybe invite them to join you with the popular kids. you sound like myou have some status, so people wouldnt say much about it, and maybe they could be popular and they would be happier and you would be too.
2007-02-17 11:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by leena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault you got voted and she didn't shes just jealous so if you fight about it your just making it worse so talk to her tell her its not your fault the student body voted that not you
2007-02-17 11:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by taylorh35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋