Whatever a man does to "help" around the house is treated like a huge favor!?

Question

Even a half-way job must be praised like you would treat a young child! Any suggestion to do it better and the guy gets to say "then do it yourself". Men...aren't you insulted to be treated this way. Women...how can we get the same treatment?

Answer 1

Men are babies all their life but unfortunately even like that we love them.Always it was like that and always it will be.We just have to accept it and try to live happily!

Answer 2

I guess it is rare that my boyfriend ever offered to help me around the house. Let's face it guys, most of you don't like cleaning or helping out around the house. You'd rather play video games or do your own thing and let her deal with the house chores. So women often get surprised when the man offers to help. It's not meant as an insult but rather they are surprised that you are helping because most men don't. Consider it a compliment.

Answer 3

I truthfully have been in Angels Stadium, Dodger Stadium, Yankee Stadium, Petco Park and regardless of the call is of that sauna in Miami in purple Sox equipment. all people treats you with admire/ignores you, different than the yank followers. there is only too lots historic previous there. It makes it exciting. As on your adventure, i ought to by no ability comprehend why a Yankee fan would look at Fenway for a purple Sox--Tigers interest in Yankee equipment. positioned on Tiger equipment for Heaven's sake. of direction you would be the main loathed individual in the park. truthfully wearing a Yankee hat in the city of Boston isn't the brightest of strikes as a known count.

Answer 4

It's a big deal because of roles. If you washed your husband's car or mowed the lawn he would probably be shocked. If he is the one working, the house is your responsibility but it's nice to have help. If both of you are working, house worked should be shared but you will probably end up doing more anyway because of traditional roles. The expression "feathering the nest" comes from the fact that a FEMALE bird wants her nest to look good and would go as far as plucking and using her own feathers to make it look good. I know this is not what you want to hear but think about it before you give me the "thumbs down".

Answer 5

this has never been a issue in home. My hubby changes diapers, cooks ,cleans ,works, makes beds, and I do the same, we ALWAYS ALWAYS thank each other... no one wants a thankless job. When someone goes the extra mile you tell em hey i appreciated that. If they do a half hearted job let it go. If he did something in a manner you did not like then hey he did earn the right to say..... then do it yourself. My hubby hates the way i mow the lawn so he dose that himself.

Answer 6

If a task needs to be done it does't matter who does it just do it and life will be happier for both men and women.

Answer 7

its your house and your mess and that mean 2 people created it and that it takes 2 people to clean it. if he wont help out just clean your dishes and your laundry. let him fend for himself for a week. he should start to come around after this unless he is just a pig.

Answer 8

When he does this choir, and he comes and tell you about it don't say anything to him. when he tells you what he did again tell him You want praise for something you are suppose to do
or You want praise for something you did and i could have done it much better go into detail how you could have done it better.

Answer 9

Your problems aren't everybody else's problems.

You're an idiot.

You're just angry you married somebody who didn't live on his own long enough to learn to maintain his own home. It's not that way in my parents' house or a lot of homes. You and whoever you sit around bitching with married who you married, and you come on here with this narrow-minded sexist drivel, and you deserve no respect for being a dimwit.

Answer 10

Sorry, MY man isn't childish like yours apparently is.